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are a practicing tantric couple. We connect twice
daily, open all our chakras to each other and
communicate according to the principles of our
practice, the Lessin's All-Chakra Tantra.
We train students in all-chakra counseling,
coaching and connecting. We hope to
inspire you to find your right livelihood
teaching the Lessin Method of All-Chakra
Tantra, as we teach it, is the art of sacred
loving, connecting on all levels of your own and
others' consciousness. We call our brand of Tantra All-Chakra Tantra TM.
learn and practice All-Chakra Tantra, you
learn to open all your energy centers (chakras,
communicate kindly and effectively, heal wounds and
remove limits to loving.
Join us at TANTRA
SCHOOL and learn skills to improve your
life, heal and expand your relationships or
earn certification in one or more of the
professional fields we offer.
SASHA LESSIN, PH.D. (UCLA)
trained with Dick Price, Drs. Hal and Sidra
Stone, Irv Katz, Stanislav Grof, Roger Woolger,
Jack Annon, David Quigley, M. J. Smith, William
Baldwin, George Brown and Shelley Stockwell as
well as Gary and Mirka Kraftsow, Charles and
Caroline Muir, Melanie Sears, Will Griffis and
Terence McKenna and others.
Dr. Lessin has taught Sex Education in the
University of Hawaii School of Medicine, Leeward
Community College and the Professional School
for Psychological Studies; he�s taught Tantra at
Maui Community College, World Polyamory
& World Tantra Association (www.worldtantraassociation.com)
conferences and at the School of Tantra (www.schooloftantra.com)
on Maui. He was Director of Counseling at the
Waikiki Drug Center and has been a relationship
counselor, spiritual journeywork guide and
tantra teacher for over forty years.
Janet Kira Lessin
JANET KIRA LESSIN�s life path and
spiritual evolution emerged from extensive study
of the consciousness growth and high spiritual
arts field and through intense meditation
In 1997 Janet and Sasha met in a tantra workshop
he taught. They fell in love and married soon
afterwards. Sasha tutored Janet extensively in
Janet, naturally tantric, joined Sasha as his
co-teacher and presenter and together they
developed, All-Chakra Tantra, a system
activating and integrating awareness on all
levels of human consciousness. As part of
Janet�s clearing, the Lessins employed the
methods of All-Chakra Tantra, which they
fine-tuned and further developed them as Janet
worked through her sexual abuse traumas and
learned how to facilitate others� reprogramming.
Janet joined Sasha in Drs. Hal and Sidra Stones'
advanced Voice Dialogue facilitators' groups.
The Stones taught her how to teach people to
center themselves and integrate subselves they
developed to deal with sexual trauma and
environmental stresses. Janet systematically
worked through the five levels of Tantra
Certification in the School of Tantra, and
attained the status of Professor of Tantric
Janet and Sasha teach, counsel and produce
workshops, events and conferences in spiritual
evolution, personal growth, consciousness,
tantra, polyamory, ancient anthropology and
Since 1997, the Lessins have been sought by the
media. Their first interview was with Der
Spiegel followed within a year by Time and
subsequently they have been featured in
television, radio, internet, magazines,
newspapers, web sites such as Cosmopolitan,
Honolulu Weekly, Hustler, Playboy, The Daily
Beast, Leeza Gibbons, Talk or Walk, John Walsh,
Extra, Entertainment, Showtime, HBO, Time Zone
International, Penn and Teller, Dr. Helen. They
have led workshops and given presentations all
over the world for dozens of organizations such
as Tony Robbins Platinum Club, Celebrations of
Love, Loving More, Sedona Temple, Phoenix
Goddess Temples, World Polyamory Association,
School of Tantra, Loving More, School of
Counseling, Sexy Spirits.
The Lessins� Tantra Certification program is the
most comprehensive in the world. The program
integrates ancient and modern healing, clearing
and consciousness-raising psychothechnologies
and spiritual practices. Their system is widely
studied by students from all continents who
either travel to meet the Lessins in person or
connect through Skype or the Lessins distance
Janet and Sasha founded
the first tantra church/temple in America, the
Temple of Tantra (aka Tantra Theosophicial and
Gaia-Worshiping Society of the Divine Human
Family), a 501c(3)(a). The Lessins are highly
skilled psychotherapists and spiritual
counselors; they counsel and teach those in need
in Hawaii and wherever they travel.
Janet wrote Polyamory
Many Loves: The Poly-Tantric Lovestyle: A
Sasha penned Great Relationships, Journey to
Tomorrow, Bred to Slave: Anunnaki Gods from
Nibiru (Planet X) Created Humanity to Serve,
Existential Life Review.
Sasha and Janet together
wrote How to Really Love A Woman, All-Chaka
Tantra and a dozen other books they�re currently
preparing for publication.
The Lessins live and love
in Maui, Hawaii, USA. They may be contacted at:
Janet Kira Lessin and/or Sasha Lessin, Ph. D,
1371 Malaihi Road, Wailuku, HI 96793, email:
phone: 808-244-4921, 808-244-4103.
Pastlife & Childhood Regression Therapist,
Existential Life Practitioner,
Professor of Tantric Studies,
Ancient Anthropology Reader,
Certified Daka or Dakini or Yoga Instructor. With the Lessin's All-Chakra
Counseling program you take charge of your
life and get on a positive career track.
Voice Dialogue, Holotropic Breathwork,
Hypnotherapy, Pastlife Regression Therapy,
Existentialism, Gestalt Therapy, Compassionate
Communications and Tantra, both red and
white. Learn Tantra
a set of stretches and postures combined with
visualizations that open your body and mind to the
rituals that bring consciousness to lovemaking. Relate simultaneously from inner security,
sexuality, power, love, communication, vision, and
spiritual chakras and let lovemaking heighten your
spiritual awareness. Communicate highly-charged
emotions kindly and effectively.
Enjoy your journey through our
extensive web site:
schooloftantra.com, a collecting point of
information, articles and ideas featuring classes,
educational programs, seminars, events,
healers and products from our sfaff and global family that
enhance all of our lives.
This picture was
taken of us when we met
we are, fall/winter 2002
(ALEX) LESSIN, PH. D.
(U.C.L.A.) a psychotherapist and relationship
counselor since the 1970s, knew how to help
people work out their differences, compromise,
agree. He studied counseling with Drs. Irv Katz
and David Quigley (Hypnotherapy), Stan Grof (Holotropic
Breathing), Roger Woolger (Jungian Past Life
Regression), William Baldwin (Spirit Releasement),
Hal and Sidra Stone (Voice Dialogue), Melanie
Sears (Non-Violent Compassionate Communication)
and Gary Kraftsow (Yoga). Sasha knew how to help
lovers resolve their differences, work things
out, compromise, create win-win scenarios, even
to re-connect emotionally. But he didn��t
know how to get them to re-connect sexually.
He also studied sacred loving/tantra--with Lori
Grace, Robert Frey, Paul and Niyaso Carter and,
especially, Charles and Caroline Muir�so he
learned to connect and teach others to connect
sexually. Charles Muir told Dr. Lessin it was
easy to get lovers to re-connect sexually but
tantra alone didn�t get them through
disagreements. It was hard for them to share
tantric sex when they felt emotionally distant.
Sasha introduced tantra into his counseling. Now
he starts lovers�
sessions with tantric breathing. Couples resolve
their bonding patterns, emotional needs and
practical concerns. Finally, they begin a
tantric lovemaking ritual. Sasha leaves the room
and the lovers consumate their connection.
Result: counseling clients work things out and
feel close again too. Sasha also accompanyed
Charles and Caroline Muir, delivered
communications lessons and coached couples in
the Muirs' Tantra seminars around the U.S. and
in Mexico. Result: Tantra students were worked
out their relationship difficulties.
Sasha is certified as a
yoga instructor by Gary Kraftsow, M.A. (Viniyoga),
and incorporates the physical training of yoga
for opening energy centers (chakras) and moving
psychospiritual energies through the body and
synergizing these energies with those of lovers.
You may contact Sasha
He lives and loves with his wonderful wife,
Janet Kira Lessin and their extended family in
their home/school/community/spiritual growth
center in Maui, Hawaii.
President and Director of the School of Tantra
(founded 1997). In 2002 she and Sasha founded
the World Tantra Association, World Peace Association
and World Polyamory Association. Janet manages all
four associations. The associations represent
their vision of personal healing, interpersonal
synergy, global transformation and universal peace in
Janet and Sasha first wed October 16, 1997 at the Celebration of Eros
at Harbin Hot Springs and married again at the Cupid's
Chapel, Los Vegas September 20, 2000.
Janet emerged totally aware of her origins. She could
always travel astrally. She remembered many of her past lives.
angels, ghosts, inter-dimensional and
extra-terrestrial beings contacted Janet with words,
visions and telepathic transmissions.
Janet noticed other people couldn't sense the entities
that came freely to her. These people, especially her
mother, punished her for revealing her non-ordinary
experiences. She decided to hide these
experiences. She knew intuitively the
time would come when people would accept paranormal
psychic and intuitive�even when she was a very young
child, drew many to talk to her about their innermost
thoughts and feelings. Her soul essence showed
through; her inner wisdom, guidance and natural
strength apparent. However, her mother who was very
conservative and Christian, feared Janet�s awareness
and tried to make her conform.
13, saddened with the obvious hypocrisy of her
religion, Janet broke free from tradition and embarked
on a spiritual path. She read thousands of books on
every subject, including psychology. She observed the
intense emotionally, physical and psychological pain
and suffering of friends and family and knew there had
to be other options. Janet, appalled, was forced to
view Vietnam War death statistics broadcast like
football scores at her nightly, family dinner table.
Overwhelmed in sorrow, she vowed to find avenues for
conflict resolution and peace, within herself, her
family and the planet. She dedicated her life to
economically challenged family couldn�t send her to
college, so she furthered her education through books,
videos, seminars, classes, private counseling and
spiritual growth work. She freed herself from
childhood abuse issues and developed skills to
facilitate others. She discovered other people
reflected parts of her and as she worked healing
others, she healed herself--one layer at a time.
coupled psychology with her natural sensitivity in all
of her traditional jobs, becoming a major healing
force for many. She helped colleagues transcend their
workday difficulties and go home more centered to face
relationships, friends and family.
Pittsburgh, where Janet was raised, was and still is a
hot spot for UFO�s, Janet, naturally curious and
part mad-scientist, thoroughly researched UFOs until
she became an expert in the field. She started The
Penn State UFO Discussion Group in 1991. In the safety
of her group, many students revealed their
experiences, from sightings to abductions to physical
markings received in their sleep. Janet recognized at
that time that she lacked the psychological skills to
effectively help her severely traumatized students and
vowed to further her studies to develop them.
1991 following a year of daily meditation, Janet had
series of of mysterious dreams recalling previous
incarnations and strange, ritualistic, lovemaking
practices. That same year she got her first internet
account from Penn State and met an astral projection
master from Hawaii in a discussion group. He could
project to her at will. She learned to consciously
connect with him and they became etheric lovers. These
intense, intimate exchanges awakened her kundalini
energy, hithertofore unknown to her. These startling
experiences puzzled and disturbed her; they rocked her
reality. When she tried to discuss these experiences
with her friends, they judged and criticized her.
Although her mother had succeeded in stifling her,
making her doubt her reality when she was a helpless
child, Janet was now too strong and aware. She knew
her experiences were valid and real.
experiences led her to divorce her conventional
husband and move to Hawaii to pursure her romance and
studies in person with her guide. She also studied
books and videos which stimulated her to remember that
previous lives and astral experiences involved tantra.
She�d never heard the word "tantra"
before, yet sensed tantra was a major system to heal
herself and the Earth.
Janet arrived in Honolulu in 1993, she discovered Pali
Paths, a just-forming polyamory group. She facilitated
the alternative relationship support group to help her
and others understand relationship dynamics and
options. One option, polyamory, like tantra, is a
high-spiritual path that honors individuality and
choice. At first only a few people attended Janet�s
poly group, but the group persevered and promoted
intelligently and word got out. Attendance grew to
several hundred. Janet moved to Maui, but Pali Paths
continues on Oahu.
pursued her love of technology; she established of her
AOL account (firstname.lastname@example.org) in 1995 became
internationally-known as an internet relations
counselor. IM's (Instant Messages) provided
spontaneity and the anonymity of the internet led to
thousands of "true confessions" from those
struggling with unhappy relationships, unfulfilled
desires, sexual frustration, dysfunction and
infidelity. Janet did the best she could to help and
she did help many. However, she knew there had to be
more she could do.
finally found the answer to her life-long quest how
she could help humanity in Summer, 1997. That�s when
she met Dr. Sasha Lessin, one of the foremost tantra
educators and psychological counselors in the world.
She completed her quest for divine love, intense
intimacy and truthful communication. They fell in love
at first sight and wed a few months later, twin flames
reunited after centuries lost, found; their individual
life paths had converged and they immediately began
teaching together, combining their diverse healing and
spiritual paths. They perfected their team work with
clients and participants in their weekend and
week-long tantra monthly seminars. The Lessins further
developed the synergy of tantra and relations
counseling to its present form, All-Chakra Tantra, the
guiding framework for the School of Tantra.
in Maui, Hawaii, Janet and Sasha counsel people from
all orientations--monogamous, polyamorous, bisexual,
gay, straight, singles, couples, moresomes, swingers
and groups--in Hawaii and all over the
globe. They utilize healing methodologies
including: Holotropic Breathwork, Tantra, Voice
Dialogue, Gestalt, Hypnotherapy, Pastlife Regression
Therapy, Compassionate Communications, Existentialism and Imago Work.
advocates and tantra educators, Dr. Sasha and Janet Kira Lessin, have been featured in TIME,
Loving More Magazine, Honolulu Weekly, Penthouse, Hustler, Der Spiegel,
Cosmopolitan, the Leeza Gibbons Show, Time Zone International, Extra, The John Walsh
Show, Talk or Walk,
Inside Edition and Penn & Teller.
Dr. Lessin, the author of: How
to Really Love a Woman,
Heighten Your Holos,
Polyamory: More Loves, More Loving,
Review, Be Yourself
The House With the One-Way Mirror Floor and Great Relations
is currently writing a new book, Born to Slave. You can find
his shorter articles by clicking here.
Dr. Lessin is currently working on his new web site:
Janet Kira Lessin, author of
Loves: The Poly Tantric Lifestyle: A Personal Account
and co-author of How
to Really Love a Woman,
More Loves, More Loving and
All-Chakra Tantra, is a frequent contributor to Loving
More and Polyamory Magazines. Her articles include:
Are We Really Mono-Poly?,
and Pearls of Polyamory
currently writing her autobiography: The Dance of the
Souls: Book One: Pierce the Veil. You may contact her at: email@example.com
to schedule an in person, internet (IM or chat) or phone
Janet Kira and
Dr. Sasha Lessin, President and Vice-President own and run
TantraConnection--a dating site and affiliate, synergistic
networking system (www.tantrconnection.com).
The Lessins founded the World Tantra Association (www.worldtantraassociation.com),
a global organization dedicated to expanding personal, relational
and universal consciousness and healing the planet. In 2004
they founded the
Polyamory Association (www.worldpolyamoryassociation.com).
Janet and Sasha also own and operate the All-Chakra
SchoolofTantra, an educational, healing & spiritual
growth center in Maui, Hawaii.
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