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Now we have many dating sites available for you to begin your search for a partner to bring to that tantra party, event, dating group or seminar that you've always wanted to attend.  Begin early and arrange several options. Find a beloved, life partner, sex buddy, friend or date to elevate your life and begin to relate.  The sites listed below have searching databases and/or chats to support your search.



     I've been trying to get these dating groups off the ground for years.  Matchmaking's a pet project of mine. I'm very blessed as I've found my divine beloved, my twin flame soul mate partner that fulfills my soul.  It wasn't easy. It took a lifetime of working on myself and he working on himself.  Then something clicked and viola, the magic began!

This is the third marriage for both of us. I guess three's a charm.  I found my husband on the internet.  I was over 40 and he over 50 and despite the odds and statistics, we not only found love, we made it work.  I had given up. Don't.  If I can do it, so can you. 

My sincerest desire from the bottom of my heart is for everyone on this planet to find, create and maintain healthy, happy relationships that will sustain them all the days of their lives.  To do so, we individually and collectively must move beyond dysfunctional, co-dependent relating styles and create healthy partnerships which will facilitate healthy families, communities and country which in turn creates a world that allows all to live with dignity, beauty, grace and peace--true peace necessary for authentic happiness.

 Maui's a tough market, especially when it comes to dating. People who live here or come to visit don't have a lot of options where to meet, except in a bar or something like that.  I hope to provide a haven for love.

Your donations (see below) to the group of your choice will allow me to get the dating site up for these groups with the tools necessary to coordinate our efforts. I found a relatively inexpensive dating program for the dating web sites, but it still costs $$$. 

Once I know, by your donations, who you are and your interests and also once we get enough members in the group(s) to make it work, I'll send out an email announcement for a meeting of our members. Please make sure I have your current, correct email address.  We can then see what date and time will work for the most of us and go from there.  We probably need about 10 people or more, gender balanced, to make it work.  Club Tantra would probably work with as little as 6 people, 3 men and 3 women, ideally couples.  Club Tantra's more erotic and for advanced people.  The rest are lighter groups, more intro-talk type interactions.  Some are in between.  Read the descriptions of the groups by clicking through the links. There's something for just about everyone.

     Then when we have enough interest, we can meet at last, look at each other, see what we have in common and see if there are any attractions we wish to pursue.  Hopefully we can build momentum to meet again the following month. I anticipate once we get the ball rolling, we'll be able to do this on a regular basis.

The Orientation Interview stands alone (see description below).  The interview is an incredible counseling/coaching session designed to help you clear negativities and energies that keep you from your bliss. I highly recommend it.

Mahalo, Blessings and Hope to Meet You Soon,

Janet Kira Lessin
     President, Maui Matchmakers
     janetlessin@aol.com
     808-244-4921
    

Item Name Description Unit Price Qty
CTC Club Tantra Club Tantra Couple 100.00
CTSM Club Tantra Club Tantra Single Man 100.00
CTSW Club Tantra Club Tantra Single Woman 50.00
OIC Orientation Interview Orientation Interview Couple 150.00
OIS Orientation Interview Orientation Interview Single 150.00
Item Name Description Unit Price Qty
CC Cuddle Club Cuddle Club 10.00
HU Hooking Up Hooking Up 10.00
AOMD Art of Mature Dating Art of Mature Dating 10.00
SD Speed Dating Speed Dating 10.00
Item Name Description Unit Price Qty
MMMMP Maui Matchmakers Maui Matchmakers Mixer Parties 10.00
CC Couples Club Couples Club 10.00
MS Mingles for Singles Mingles For Singles 10.00
PC Polyamory Connection Polyamory Connection 10.00
TC Tantra Connection Tantra Connection 10.00


WHAT HAPPENS IN ORIENTATION SESSION ON MAUI WITH DR. SASHA & JANET KIRA LESSIN?

 

Before you are eligible to attend Level 1 Tantra Events, Dating Groups or Tantra Classes, we guide you in a 60 to 90 minute Orientation.  This extensive vetting process protects you and the other members of our groups and classes from improper, disruptive energies that may come from those who are not ready for group activities.  Attendees work on themselves to become conscious, clear, centered, aware relaxed and able to understand fully the intention and purpose of coming together in sacred circles where members share energy and create a group gestalt.  We  want all to enjoy a nice experience. Thank you for your patience and understanding our intentions for creating this process to maximize fun and enjoyment for all.


There are several variants of the orientation, depending on whether you come to it alone, come as a pair, or come as a moresome (triad, quatrad, pod). What you explore in the orientation depends upon what interests you, what you seek in exploring relationships or tantra or sacred sexuality. What you explore also depends upon your prior experience with relationships or tantra as well as your experience clearing with your rearers and the other significant others in your life. The content of the interview also varies with your emotional fitness and prior holotropic, pastlife or shamanic exploratiosn. If you’re interested in polyamory, the content of your orientation explores the reactions of your subpersonalities and partners in multiperson loving. 

ORIENTING INTERVIEW FOR INDIVIDUALS
We help you witness and center yourself as you activate each of your energy centers (chakras). You give each energy center–perineum, genitals, diaphagm, heart, throat, vision center, crown--voice (Inner Child, Sexy Self, Hero, Lover, Communicator, Visionary/Thinker, Spiritual Aspect, respectively), find out what each wants and needs in terms of your lovelife. You explore other subpersonalities that have an interest in your lovelife–your Inner Critic, Pleaser, Perfectionist, Artist, etc. so, from your Center you can recognize, accept and coordinate all your voices from your center. We give you homework to complete that will continue to facilitate your growth and appreciation of the needs of each of your subselves till you next see us for a tantra event or advanced individual technique lessons. Your orientation helps you become clear with your goals and life focus, where you've been and where you want to go.  This process keeps all our members safe.  After your personal orientation, together we decide which group or groups may be appropriate for you or if you want to continue with private counseling sessions. 

ORIENTING INTERVIEW FOR PAIRS & MORESOMES
We begin by having you and your partner or partners hold hands, look into each others’ left eyes till you feel your oneness with each other, breathe in and out at the same time, then tell each other what you’d like to get out of the session a) for yourself as an ind ividual, b) for you as a couple, triad or group.

ACTIVE LISTENING: We then take you through experiences that help you get what you want out from this interview. Some of the variations we use for this are Active Listening, where you take turns: you, the Speaker, talk while the other partner (s), the Listener, paraphrases what you say, till you say, “correct.” The listener asks if you have more to say and you continue to fully express yourself while you make sure your partner, in his or her own words, gets each of your ideas to your satisfaction. Then your Listener summarizes your main thoughts, empathizes with your emotions and asks if you have any behaviors–behaviors that address the needs underlying what you want--to request. You say what you want and why you want it, what need motivates your wants. Your listener or listeners commit to whatever requests she, he or they can an negotiate the requests that demand more than they wish to give. They agree to behaviors in the direction of meeting your needs. We give you homework to complete that will continue to facilitate your growth and appreciation of the needs of each of your subselves and those of your partner or partners.

IMAGO PROCESS: When we have established that you and your lovers in the orientation can listen actively–mirror, validate, empathize with, make behavioral requests–we have you take turns holding each other while you turn your relationship into a healing crucible. The imago process teaches you=2 0to defuse over-reactions to each other and to manage emotional reactions based the past you don’t distance each other now based on what happened before. You learn to release pent-up feelings and rescript once-appropriate but now-limiting rules. You learn to say what s/he wants without masking reactions. You request healing behavios and affirm your new openness. We give you homework to complete that will continue to facilitate your relationships and advise you on which of our dating, tantra, polyamory or shamanic groups would best suit you.

Orientation interview cost: $150.

Call 808 244-4921, write schooloftantra@aol.com, see http://www.schooloftantra.com.
 

NEW!  
DATING WEB SITES

sponsored by the World Tantra Association
AGELESS GAY LOVE - Gay love across the ages and generations
AGELESS LESBIAN -
Lesbian love across the ages and generations

AGELESS POLYAMORY - Polyamorous love across the ages and generations
AGELESS TANTRA  -
Tantric love across the ages and generations
BISEXUAL'S WORLD -
Bisexual and bi-curious people find one another for love
BISEXUAL TRIADS - Dating site for bisexual people who love to love in triads
INTERRACIAL POLYAMORY- Polyamorous loving with people of different races
INTERRACIAL TANTRA - Tantric loving with lovers of different races

LOVE ACROSS THE AGES  - Love for all across ages and generations
MAUI MATCH MAKERS -
Love for all orientations and relationship styles
POLY BISEXUALS  -
Love for polyamorous bisexuals and bi-curious
POLYAMORY MILLIONAIRES -
Millionaires or those looking for millionaires who are poly
SUGAR DADDY SUGAR BABY -
Financially secure man seeking to support & love a woman
TALL DATES - Dating site for men and women looking for tall men and women for dates

TALL POLYAMORY - Dating site to find tall people who are also interested in polyamory
TALL TANTRA - Dating site to find tall people who are also interested in tantra
TANTRA CONNECTION.com & .org - My first attempt at a dating for tantra. Doesn't work. 
TANTRA CONNECTION.net - Find friends and lovers on a tantric path
TANTRA BISEXUALS -
Bisexuals or bi-curious folks interested in tantra
TANTRA MILLIONAIRES -
Millionaires or those looking for millionaires who're also into tantra
TANTRA SUGAR DADDY -
Tantric financially secure man seeks tantra woman
SPRING FALL MATCH -
Love between people of different generations
 

 

 

 

HOW TO JOIN OUR
DATING/MATCHMAKING GROUPS

Our dating groups: Club Tantra, Mingles for Singles, Tantra Connection, Polyamory Connection, Hooking Up, Art of Mature Dating, Speed Dating, Couples Club and Maui Matchmakers are for singles, couples, triads and groups of all orientations and relationships styles.  You may be straight, gay, bisexual, heterosexual, polyamorous, polyfidelitous, monogamous, swingers, open relationships, soul mates, twin flames.  Just tell us who you are and what you seek and we'll help you manifest and make your dreams come true. 

Check out our polyamory dating site: www.polyamoryconnection.com
This site is coming soon. Stay tuned!

Are you a dating web site guru who can help us with this project?  If so, write to us at janetlessin@aol.com.  Mahalo.

 



http://www.tantraconnection.com
This site is coming soon. Stay tuned.

MATCHMAKING SERVICES

 

What better place could you bring somebody to start a romance than at one of School of Tantra's EVENTS!  Come to CLUB TANTRA.  Join the TANTRA CONNECTION.  Attend a POLYAMORY CONFERENCE.  Develop class as you clear old karma when you join MINGLES FOR SINGLES.  Perfect your tantra techniques at TANTRA SCHOOL.  Join one or more of our YAHOO GROUPS.  Whatever your orientation or relationship style, there's many ways to connect with others and find that dream mate or date here at the School of Tantra.

*Note: We're working on getting our own database driven dating sites up and running.  Our new sites areTantra Connection, Polyamory Connection, Mingles for Singles and Swinger Connection.  This is a lenthgy and costly project.  In the meanwhile, please join Adultfriendfinder through our links to support our efforts.   Your proceeds go towards our web site/database development pro

Item Name Description Unit Price Qty
CC Cuddle Club Cuddle Club 10.00
HU Hooking Up Hooking Up 10.00
AOMD Art of Mature Dating Art of Mature Dating 10.00
SD Speed Dating Speed Dating 10.00
ject.  We hope to get these sites up and running in 2007 so we can better serve our ever expanding, global, sex-positive community.  We get thousands of calls and emails ever year from people who ask us to help them find new friends and lovers.  We have heard you and understand that you want to connect more intimately, deeply, passionately, spiritually, tantrically with other singles and couples, but are unsure how to proceed.  We see that many people are unconfortable with our society's current relationship model that appears to have limited choices.  Many who call us are frustrated, don't fit into the box.  We're responding to your plea to create options.  We envision new avenues for people to experience personal freedom, diversity, variety and choose more options so each may be happier with his or her lifestyle and relationship choices.  We hope these new web sites will help you meet your needs and actualize your dreams.  If you are a computer or web guru and can help speed up our efforts, please contact us at schooloftantra@aol.com.


Try our new MATCHMAKING SERVICE.  If you live in Maui, Hawaii or are visiting, we can help you find a match made just for you.  Complete steps 1 through 4 above.  Send us your photos.  If we find someone who matches what you're looking for, we'll let you know.  We'll compare notes, tell you something about your potential date and if agreeable by all parties, invite you to participate in facilitated introduction sessions.  Many love our new INTRODUCTION SERVICE.  Dating can be quite awkward.  Perhaps you've been searching high and low, and finally found someone interesting on the net but now that you've met someone interesting, where should you meet?  You like each other, but don't want to blow it.  You aren't sure what to do next.  You hate blind dates.  Meeting at a bar or restaurant feels intimidating. Part of you find it to be a bit scary.  You think maybe it's even unsafe to meet someone new alone.


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     In these rapidly changing times dating's more complex than ever,  But, that makes it more fun!  There are many relationship style choices, each rich and luscious, like items on a menu.  If one has the right mindset, the thrill of dating can be absolutely
exhilarating.  We can now freely date others and cross over former boundaries of race, color, creed, orientation, age and even numbers of partners.  We can chose to be gay, lesbian, monogamous, polyamorous, bisexual, swingers and more.  Society's finally becoming more free and accepting despite the remaining pockets of bigotry and prejudice.  We now find we have more flexibility when it comes to following our own personal pursuits of happiness.   

The world's becoming one huge melting pot.  It's lovely to see us mix, match, meld and merge.  We see more freedom, more options for relationships when countries like Canada bravely legalize same sex marriages.  Texas threw out ancient sodomy laws.  The future's brighter when the world's governments realize they have no business being in our bedrooms.  

     The children we create from mixing are stunning.  They are the hope of the future of this planet.  The rapidly emerging new culture of tolerance and love we're forming from our blending is phenomenal.  It inspires all of us to higher levels of conscious expression and creativity.  This new paradigm gives us hope that we can achieve a world of peace, love, cooperation and high civilization that honors and respects all beings in our lifetimes.  We now see each of us as the equals we truly are.  We respect consciousness in whatever form it appears.  The School of TantraWorld Tanta Association, and World Polyamory Association invite you to join us as we explore new models of love.  Enjoy the adventure. 


The Lessins are available for private classes, tantra or counseling when they're home or on the road. 
To schedule your private appointment call 808-244-4103 or email janetkiralessin@aol.com

 



 

     



 

 

 

 

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