DreamMaker(TM) MATCH-MAKER, FRIEND-FINDER, INTRODUCTION SERVICE &  RELATIONSHIP SUPPORT GROUPS


MINGLES FOR SINGLES
 
Dating Introduction Service & Relationship Support Group for Monogamous Singles

Fridays 7:00 PM - Registration Required

ORIENTATION INTERVIEW
led by Sasha Lessin, Ph. D. & Janet Kira Lessin


MINGLES for SINGLES GROUP | INTRODUCTION SERVICE | ORIENTATION INTERVIEW | MINGLES MIXERS | SPEED DATING
 TESTIMONIALS | WOMEN'S CIRCLE
| MEN'S CIRCLE | WOMEN'S EMPOWERMENT GROUP | REGISTRATION FORM


Before you can become a member of MINGLES FOR SINGLES dating club and introduction service you must complete a Registration Form and go through an orientation interview. Then you're ready to our Mingles for Singles Group and Mixers and are eligible for participation in our Introduction Service or Speed Dating group.     

When individuals are wounded from past relationships and negative parental and cultural programming, they often project their wounds onto others and create further pain for themselves and their partners when they venture into relationships.  The Mingles interview, which takes about an hour, helps you discover what you need in order to prepare yourself for the world of dating. You'll be evaluated through an extensive consultation process conducted by one or more of our professional counselors or psychotherapists which will help you discover what you need to do to prepare yourself so you'll have the best dating experiences.  With the assistance of our professionals, you determine what steps you need to do in order to be ready. You may decide you need more private counseling or feel you're ready to join the support group. 

 

WHAT HAPPENS IN ORIENTATION SESSION ON MAUI WITH DR. SASHA & JANET KIRA LESSIN?


Before we let you attend Level 1 Tantra Events or Tantra Classes, we guide you in a two-hour Orientation.

There are several variants of the orientation, depending on whether you come to it alone, come as a pair, or come as a moresome (triad, quatrad, pod). What you explore in the orientation depends upon what interests you, what you seek in exploring sacred sexuality. What you explore also depends upon your prior experience with tantra as well as your experie nce clearing with your rearers and the other significant others in your life. The content of the interview also varies with your emotional fitness and prior holotropic, pastlife or shamanic exploratiosn. If you’re interested in polyamory, the content of your orientation explores the reactions of your subpersonalities and partners in multiperson loving.

ORIENTING INTERVIEW FOR INDIVIDUALS
We help you witness and center yourself as you activate each of your energy centers (chakras). You give each energy center–perineum, genitals, diaphagm, heart, throat, vision center, crown--voice (Inner Child, Sexy Self, Hero, Lover, Communicator, Visionary/Thinker, Spiritual Aspect, respectively), find out what each wants and needs in terms of your lovelife. You explore other subpersonalities that have an interest in your lovelife–your Inner Critic, Pleaser, Perfectionist, Artist, etc. so, from your Center you can recognize, accept and coordinate all your voices from your center. We give you homework to complete that will continue to facilitate your growth and appreciation of the needs of each of your subselves till you next see us for a tantra event or advanced individual technique lessons.

ORIENTING INTERVIEW FOR PAIRS & MORESOMES
We begin by having you and your partner or partners hold hands, look into each others’ left eyes till you feel your oneness with each other, breathe in and out at the same time, then tell each other what you’d like to get out of the session a) for yourself as an ind ividual, b) for you as a couple, triad or group.

ACTIVE LISTENING: We then take you through experiences that help you get what you want out from this interview. Some of the variations we use for this are Active Listening, where you take turns: you, the Speaker, talk while the other partner (s), the Listener, paraphrases what you say, till you say, “correct.” The listener asks if you have more to say and you continue to fully express yourself while you make sure your partner, in his or her own words, gets each of your ideas to your satisfaction. Then your Listener summarizes your main thoughts, empathizes with your emotions and asks if you have any behaviors–behaviors that address the needs underlying what you want--to request. You say what you want and why you want it, what need motivates your wants. Your listener or listeners commit to whatever requests she, he or they can an negotiate the requests that demand more than they wish to give. They agree to behaviors in the direction of meeting your needs. We give you homework to complete that will continue to facilitate your growth and appreciation of the needs of each of your subselves and those of your partner or partners.

IMAGO PROCESS: When we have established that you and your lovers in the orientation can listen actively–mirror, validate, empathize with, make behavioral requests–we have you take turns holding each other while you turn your relationship into a healing crucible. The imago process teaches you=2 0to defuse over-reactions to each other and to manage emotional reactions based the past you don’t distance each other now based on what happened before. You learn to release pent-up feelings and rescript once-appropriate but now-limiting rules. You learn to say what s/he wants without masking reactions. You request healing behavios and affirm your new openness. We give you homework to complete that will continue to facilitate your relationships and advise you on which of our tantra, polyamory or shamanic groups would best suit you.

Orientation interview cost: $150.

Call 808 244-4921, write schooloftantra@aol.com, see http://www.schooloftantra.com.

MINGLES SUPPORT GROUPSWhen we were in school there were no classes on dating. We learned the hard way, through trial and error. Maybe you were too shy and rarely dated.  Maybe you never dated at all.  

No matter where you are on the dating continuum, our support groups help you recover from dating and relationship trauma.  Our groups are fun and supportive.  Clear issues and old wounds and recognize and celebrate your strengths and good points. Individuals bond, develop deep friendships, clear negative energies and heal with the loving support of counselors and peers. 

MEN'S CIRCLE:  Sometimes in our support groups men need to speak man to man.  Men need to learn from their elders and speak to their peers.  Certain issues may arise that need to be discussed among men.  When necessary, the main support group may break into separate circles consisting of only men and women in each circle.  

WOMEN'S CIRCLE:  Sometimes there are things women want to discuss among themselves, alone and apart from  men.  When necessary the larger support group may break into smaller sections with only members of the same sex in order to discuss delicate issues not suitable for both sexes.  

Learn what it takes to create a successful date.  Mingles
also serves as the dating class we never had but sorely needed when we were teenagers or young adults.  At Mingles, you go on practice dates with other students and use your dating surrogates to develop your dating skills.  You report back to class and get feedback.  You gain confidence, learn from your mistakes and discover how to get back on the horse and try again till eventually, you clear all the cobwebs and pull in the divine beloved you deserve.  Yes, there may be tears and laughter, but you and your new friends will all be in the same boat. 


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SCHOOL OF TANTRA
1371 Malaihi Road, Wailuku, Hawaii  96793
808-244-4103, schooloftantra@aol.com
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Copyright © 1997-2005
World Tantra Association. All rights reserved.

Revised: 04/26/11

Meals and ACCOMMODATIONS not included.   Please complete APPLICATION and REGISTRATION FORM

ANNUAL DreamMaker MEMBERSHIP FEE: Good for DreamMaker Clubs: MINGLES FOR SINGLES, TANTRA CONNECTION, POLYAMORY CONNECTION, DreamMaker Mixers or CLUB TANTRAMembership fee must be renewed each year.  Fee includes Orientation Interview or Annual Review $150.

Orientation Interview ($150) is required before you can participate in our dating/study groups and parties. 

      Mingles is for singles only.  All relationship styles and sexual orientations welcome.  DreamMaker Groups & Parties: $25 per week per person or 10 coupons good for 10 admissions for $200 per person.  Annual unlimited admission pass: $500 per person.

Click Dream Maker Registration Form to sign up for this group
Call  808-244-4103, toll free 888-445-8720 or email
MinglesSingles@aol.com

DreamMaker groups are for singles, couples, triads, groups.

* MINGLES is reserved for monogamous singles and includes:
 heterosexual mongamous singles and
gay, lesbian or bisexual monogamous singles.

If you're interested in POLYMORY and other ALTERNATIVE LIFESTYLES
come to CLUB TANTRA, POLYAMORY CONNECTION or TANTRA CONNECTION 

 


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 The date we receive your written cancellation determines amount we refund to you.

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90+ 75%
60-89 50%
31-59 25%
6-30 no refund

Full payment required for events $100 or less. 
50% deposit required when you make reservation for events over $100.

Balance is due in full one week before event. 

 Hawaii sales tax of 4.166% is added for all Hawaii events.

If you register but cannot attend an event, you may:
Apply your credit towards another School of Tantra event within one year (12 months)
subject to a $75 processing fees plus price increase, if any, of the service or event.

Returned checks will be charged a $30 bank service fee
 

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