DreamMaker(TM) MATCH-MAKER, FRIEND-FINDER, INTRODUCTION SERVICE &  RELATIONSHIP SUPPORT GROUPS


MINGLES FOR MINGLES 
 Dating Introduction Service & Relationship Support Group for Monogamous Singles
INTRODUCTION SERVICE
By appointment only
led by Sasha Lessin, Ph. D. & Janet Kira Lessin
 


MINGLES for SINGLES GROUP | INTRODUCTION SERVICE | ORIENTATION INTERVIEW | MINGLES MIXERS | SPEED DATING
 TESTIMONIALS | WOMEN'S CIRCLE
| MEN'S CIRCLE | WOMEN'S EMPOWERMENT GROUP | REGISTRATION FORM


Matchmaker, Matchmaker, make me a match!  Looking for love in all the wrong places?  Instead try Mingles for Singles, our alternative to blind dates--often awkward and embarassing---meeting singles in a bar or over the internet--unrewarding, sometimes disasterous and maybe dangerous.

Discover Mingles for Singles, the introduction service designed to help you and other daters learn more, faster, in safe, interesting ways.  Our professional relationship counselors, Dr. Sasha Lessin and Janet Kira Lessin, lovingly guide you to fix fatal relating flaws fast and discriminately intelligently about what relationships to deepen.   


From our database, you anonymously select those you're interested in meeting.  Then, if they also want to meet you, meet for a private date at Mingles.  At Mingles, we guide you and your date through exercises to help you evaluate your compatiblity with one another in a conscious, kind way.  

You may decide to be lovers, friends, acquaintences, or go your separate ways; you don't know until the session's complete.  Together we enjoy the mystery, celebrate the discovery as we use these dating opportunities to learn how to date more efficiently.  At Mingles you date and see each new encounter as an exciting adventure.

Each introduction session is $150.00.  You may split the fee with your date or pay the total fee yourself. 

To ensure confidentiality, you use a dating name that you chose to protect your real indentity.  If you want to reveal your true identity, you may. 

Complete a REGISTRATION FORM to become a member of Mingles for Singles. Call 808-244-4103 or email MinglesSingles@aol.com to schedule your ORIENTATION INTERVIEW.

     ANNUAL DreamMaker MEMBERSHIP FEE
: Good for DreamMaker Clubs: MINGLES FOR SINGLES, TANTRA CONNECTION, POLYAMORY CONNECTION, DreamMaker Mixers or CLUB TANTRAMembership fee must be renewed each year.  Fee includes Orientation Interview or Annual Review.  $150. 

Orientation Interview ($150) is required before you can participate in our dating/study groups and parties.   

WHAT HAPPENS IN ORIENTATION SESSION ON MAUI WITH DR. SASHA & JANET KIRA LESSIN?


Before we let you attend Level 1 Tantra Events or Tantra Classes, we guide you in a two-hour Orientation.

There are several variants of the orientation, depending on whether you come to it alone, come as a pair, or come as a moresome (triad, quatrad, pod). What you explore in the orientation depends upon what interests you, what you seek in exploring sacred sexuality. What you explore also depends upon your prior experience with tantra as well as your experie nce clearing with your rearers and the other significant others in your life. The content of the interview also varies with your emotional fitness and prior holotropic, pastlife or shamanic exploratiosn. If you’re interested in polyamory, the content of your orientation explores the reactions of your subpersonalities and partners in multiperson loving.

ORIENTING INTERVIEW FOR INDIVIDUALS
We help you witness and center yourself as you activate each of your energy centers (chakras). You give each energy center–perineum, genitals, diaphagm, heart, throat, vision center, crown--voice (Inner Child, Sexy Self, Hero, Lover, Communicator, Visionary/Thinker, Spiritual Aspect, respectively), find out what each wants and needs in terms of your lovelife. You explore other subpersonalities that have an interest in your lovelife–your Inner Critic, Pleaser, Perfectionist, Artist, etc. so, from your Center you can recognize, accept and coordinate all your voices from your center. We give you homework to complete that will continue to facilitate your growth and appreciation of the needs of each of your subselves till you next see us for a tantra event or advanced individual technique lessons.

ORIENTING INTERVIEW FOR PAIRS & MORESOMES
We begin by having you and your partner or partners hold hands, look into each others’ left eyes till you feel your oneness with each other, breathe in and out at the same time, then tell each other what you’d like to get out of the session a) for yourself as an ind ividual, b) for you as a couple, triad or group.

ACTIVE LISTENING: We then take you through experiences that help you get what you want out from this interview. Some of the variations we use for this are Active Listening, where you take turns: you, the Speaker, talk while the other partner (s), the Listener, paraphrases what you say, till you say, “correct.” The listener asks if you have more to say and you continue to fully express yourself while you make sure your partner, in his or her own words, gets each of your ideas to your satisfaction. Then your Listener summarizes your main thoughts, empathizes with your emotions and asks if you have any behaviors–behaviors that address the needs underlying what you want--to request. You say what you want and why you want it, what need motivates your wants. Your listener or listeners commit to whatever requests she, he or they can an negotiate the requests that demand more than they wish to give. They agree to behaviors in the direction of meeting your needs. We give you homework to complete that will continue to facilitate your growth and appreciation of the needs of each of your subselves and those of your partner or partners.

IMAGO PROCESS: When we have established that you and your lovers in the orientation can listen actively–mirror, validate, empathize with, make behavioral requests–we have you take turns holding each other while you turn your relationship into a healing crucible. The imago process teaches you=2 0to defuse over-reactions to each other and to manage emotional reactions based the past you don’t distance each other now based on what happened before. You learn to release pent-up feelings and rescript once-appropriate but now-limiting rules. You learn to say what s/he wants without masking reactions. You request healing behavios and affirm your new openness. We give you homework to complete that will continue to facilitate your relationships and advise you on which of our tantra, polyamory or shamanic groups would best suit you.

Orientation interview cost: $150.

Call 808 244-4921, write
schooloftantra@aol.com, see http://www.schooloftantra.com.

Mingles is for singles only.  $25 per week per person or 10 coupons good for 10 admissions for $200 per person.  Annual unlimited admission pass: $500 per person.
 

Click Dream Maker Registration Form to sign up for this group
Call  808-244-4103, email
MinglesSingles@aol.com

 
* MINGLES is reserved for monogamous singles and has two sections:
 TRADITIONAL for heterosexual mongamous singles and
UNCONVENTIONAL for gay, lesbian or bisexual monogamous singles.

If you're interested in POLYMORY and other ALTERNATIVE LIFESTYLES
come to CLUB TANTRA, POLYAMORY CONNECTION or TANTRA CONNECTION 
 

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