Aloha, I'm Dr. Sasha (Alex) Lessin. I
begin this thread with my own experience; share yours on this
Back in the 60s, I read an article by
Ragneesh that said if you sat in yab/yum with a lover, and
neither of you moved too much you'd have mutual, simultaneous
spontaneous orgasms; both of you would climax together. For
years I tried this unsuccessfully--in the sense of
simultaneous--with a succession of lovers. But I sure had lots
of fun trying.
In the 70s, I studied with Dr. Jack Annon
in Honolulu and taught Human Sexuality for the University of
Hawaii School of Medicine on Oahu. I read all the available
books and applied what I learned in my lovelife. I taught Human
Sexuality at Leeward College near Pearl City. I studied Gestalt
Therapy with Dick Price, Alchemical Hypnotherapy with Dr. David
Quigley and Voice Dialogue with Drs. Hal and Sidra Stone,
Psychosynthesis with Jame Fadiman, and Bioenergetics with
various teachers and incorporated techniques I learned from
these teachers as well as methods I developed as I studied, into
the tantra I taught.
I moved to Maui and with Joan Kelly Lessin,
taught tantra at Celebrations of Love in Tiburon and in Tiburan,
shared info and moves with Lori Grace and Robert Frey. I became
a certified Viniyoga Instructor, and learned the secrets of
kundalini mastery from Gary and Mirka Kraftsow, as well as
Professor Desachar himself.
On my own and with Carla Tara, I taught
Tantra for Polys at the various Loving More Polyamory
Conferences at Harbin, Berkely, the Catskills and in Maryland. I
taught tantra also at Sexy Spirits in NYC and in Left Hand
Canyon in Boulder and at Steven and Anastas's place in Carlsbad,
I became a Holotropic Breathworker,
certified by Dr.Stan Grof himself and a Jungian Pastlife
therapist, certified by Dr. Roger Woolger, and incorporated
Holotropic and Pastlife therapy, as well as Spirit Releasement
therapy (which I studies with Dr. William Baldwin) into the yoni
massage techniques I was practicing.
In the 80s, I apprenticed to Charles and
Caroline Muir, taught couples-communication and yoga with them
and with Mair Simone at Rio Caliente, Jalisco, Boulder CO, L.A.,
San Rafael. Joan moved out and Charles moved in with me in Maui
and I continued learning from him and the many tantricas who
studied with him.
In the 90s, I hooked up with my beloved,
Janet Kira Lessin and together we facilitated, and still run,
Club Tantra at various venues--Honolulu, NYC and Maui.
Janet and I developed All-Chakra Tantra
and began certifying students in our School of Tantra on Maui as
well as by correspondence. We've written books, appeared on Penn
and Teller, Lisa Gibbons, Love Phones (with Dr. Judy
Kuriansky)and oodles of radio and webcast shows. We've taught
tantra at the Daka and Dakini Conference in Sedona, as well.
We've developed wonderful group tantra
rituals for polys, swingers and tantric experiencers, healed
hundreds of their sexual limitations and had a most fulfilling
relationship with each other and our poly lovers.
Janet and I teach teleseminars on The
Psychology of Tantric Healing on
OneTantra: http://onetantra.com and
http://www.1shoppingcart/app/?af=991404.com; click and learn how
to join us and participate.
Dr. Sasha and Janet
teach you how to uncover the sources of your jealousy
to reveal your insecurities and overcome your limitations to
empathy, joy and bliss.
Singles: Prepare yourself
emotionally and psychologically for multiple partner
relating. Overcome character flaws and foster
attributes which will make you more attractive and
Couples: Learn ways to relate
empathetically so you both can fully enjoy your
experience. Honor, at all times, the integrity of your
relationship. Maintain linkage and always feel
connected. Come from fullness instead of lack.
Classes are for all forms of
relating: Single Experience, Lifestyles, Polyamorous
Relationships, Swingers, Monogamous, Gay, Bisexual or Live-In Lover.
Phone sessions singles: $75 (30-45 min)
Phone sessions couples: $150/hr (60-90 min)
HERE or call toll free 808-244-4103 office
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dates, times, location (Maui or your town)
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