Synergy Newsletter December 2002
Published by Janet Kira Lessin, C.T.I. and Sasha (Alex) Lessin, Ph.D.

Another year rushes to an end and Sasha, S.P and I look forward to bright future with our ever-expanding poly-tantric family. Members get on the plane, attend school and decide about living in community. Some come to live with us. Staying and parting is the natural flow, the ebb and tide of life.

We started to pull this issue together two weeks ago and Iím amazed how much has transpired. Sasha and I squeeze in lots of life in a very short time. Juan, Cindy and Caileigh departed but remain in contact with us. S.P. arrived; heís a living doll, the answer to my prayers. Heís an accomplished writer and extremely interesting fellow; I know youíll enjoy his Intro in this issue, "A Shrink Shares His Experience of Tantra School ".

Two students in our current Tantra School (ending December 14th), are at this moment contemplating living in community with us and we are as delighted with them as they are with us. Their decisions to join depend on many personal factors and we know whatever they chose will be for the highest good for all concerned.

Melanie joins us December 27th. Jor-El returns home for Christmas. Haridas and Gwen, two members of a triad and part of our extended off-island family, visit in January. The holidays are upon us and old friends, students and potential community members continue to call, get on the plane and visit. Top it off with the fact that Sasha and I grow deeper in love every day, and my personal life has turned into complete bliss and joy. Now if we could only take that energy out to this planet, weíd have world peace.

Speaking of world peace, thatís precisely the concept behind Alternate Realities, the first article in a series Iím writing which links physics, religion, history, metaphysics, tantra and polyamory. Many of you may not realize that on top of being a counselor, author and polyamorist, Iíve been a UFOlogist since I was ten. Iíve been accelerating this research and have uncovered some incredibly controversial information tying together the ancient and the new. This oneís been difficult for me to get out to you as Iím really going far out on a limb. But here goes. Shirley McClaine, move over!

Sashaís been very busy teaching Tantra School so he hasnít had time to write an article for the newsletter this month. Instead, he offers his latest rhapsody on tantra.

"Tantra weaves chords from each level of your consciousnessĖeach level conceived as a chakraĖinto a magic carpet of thrilling kundalini energy that soars along your spine. You experience yourself as a conscious bridge between the earthly and the spiritual. Tantra activates the safe, the sexy, the powerful, the loving, the communicative, the knowing and the spiritual within you, between you and your beloved, and between you and the world".

We have quite a talented group assembling here. I know youíll enjoy meeting each and every one of them as they introduce themselves to you through their writings. Finally, weíre planning on being home until spring and welcome those who can make it to Maui this winter and visit with us. Weíre beginning to put together our travel plans for next summer and look forward to meeting many of you this coming year. Until then.

Mahalo and Blessings,
Janet Kira Lessin

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1. BACK IN THE SADDLE AGAIN: IS POLYAMOROUS DATINGíS EASIER THAN LIVING TOGETHER? (Janet)
2. A SHRINK SHARES HIS EXPERIENCE OF TANTRA SCHOOL (S.P.)
3. ALTERNATE REALITIES (Janet)
4. CONSCIOUS CONNECTIONS - FRIDAYS
5. TANTRA CONNECTION PARTIES - SATURDAYS
6. JOIN OUR CONSCIOUS COMMUNITY ON MAUI
7. TANTRA SCHOOL - December 23-28, 2002, January 13-24, 2003 on Maui
8. GESTALT FUN: January 22, 2003, 11AM -1 PM & 6-8PM led by Sasha
9. YOGA- December 23-28, 2002, January 13-24, 2003 (Sasha leads)
10. LOVE A WOMAN: A DAY-LONG, COACHED TANTRIC DATE: Dec. 27, 2002 & January 15, 2003 (Janet & Sasha show you).
11. SCHEDULE FOR DECEMBER & JANUARY TANTRA SCHOOL

1. BACK IN THE SADDLE AGAIN: IS POLYAMOROUS DATINGíS EASIER THAN LIVING TOGETHER?  by Janet Kira Lessin

It seems when we appear on TV with our poly mates, our relationship with them dissolves. Juan and Cindy left. Chalk up another poly relationship that didn't work for Janet and Sasha. I guess I could launch into story of blame and shame, if I were in that mode. There's many a story Ďbout what didn't work and why. However, it's best to say, things just didn't work.

It took me two days to process the pain and shock. I'm still reeling, but it's not as intense. I feel a bit humbled, especially since they left just a short while after Jennie went back home the month before. A part of me feels defeated and afraid to try polyamory again. Luckily I have my dear husband and best friend Sasha to lick my wounds. And I also can email my two other live-in poly mates, Mel and S.P., who are not here yet, but soon will get on the plane. And there's the wonderful sympathetic ear of my other extended family poly mate, Jor-El.

So what's going on? Why do I keep having these "failures" and are they really thus? Is it all my fault? And why after all of this, do I keep believing that polyamory can work, especially for me, when I keep falling off the horse, land rather hard and feel a tremendous amount of pain? Ouch!

It's interesting dating in this fashion. Before, when I was monogamous, I used to "fall in love" and move through the dance of love, totally unconscious as if it all was out of my control and just as destiny decreed. I floated through two consecutive marriages spanning twenty four years that way, my head in a cloud till reality grabbed my feet and crashed me to the ground. I love monogamy, actually. I guess that may seem strange coming from a polyamorist. I love being in a duo. It seems simpler in many ways. Itís certainly easier coordinating many things that are far more difficult for polys, such as getting everyone in the car on time, sharing economics, dividing housekeeping chores and deciding who sleeps where, with whom and when.

Sasha and I, in our exuberance to create conscious community, have been trying another system of dating, away from the sex-first system so frequently practiced in the "normal" world. We meet people on the internet or at conferences, chat, exchange emails, interview one another and after a couple weeks to a few months of deliberation, decide it's a go to have them move in with us and see how it works.

We've decided to re-evaluate our system.

Sasha and I desire to create what we term "all-chakra relationships", meaning that all the members in the relationship support and love one another on all chakras. For those unfamiliar with chakras, chakras are a system of energy centers that correlate with parts of our bodies--where the ganglia meet--that symbolize aspects of our lives. For example, the root chakra (anus) is home to our Inner Child and embodies our need to feel secure, supported and have a sense of belonging. Our sexual chakra--in our genitals and reproductive organs--is the home of our sexuality and sensuality. Our power chakra (belly) symbolizes how we empower ourselves and each other to take what's rightfully ours in life. Heart chakra energy relates to how we give and receive love. The throat chakra stands for open, honest, authentic communication. The brow or third-eye chakra is for our intellect and intuition and our crown chakra at the top of our head is how we move beyond our skin-encapsulated self-sense to feel our unity consciousness with each other and the divine.

Looking back at our attempts at co-residential poly relationships thus far, Sash and I realized that none of these relationships we had worked well on all levels and that we really need a longer interview process and probation period before moving in together. We need firmer boundaries. We're also taking another newly appreciative look at the "sex-first" system we followed in our youth; it's looking better and better. After all, making love is a wonderful way to open to one another. There's a lot to be said about sharing energy, touching lovingly, getting juicy and going with the flow.

Now I'm not about to become promiscuous. That never has been my nature nor do I think it's about to happen anytime soon. I was raised to go slow and cautiously and that system has served me well. However, I think I may relax a bit more and dare to broach the subject of sexual-lovemaking a wee bit sooner than I did before. I'm also more open now in regards to loving a wider variety of body types because I've learned how to develop alchemy (consciously grow to love) rather than require the chemical attraction I felt necessary in my youth.

Embarrassed, I told Jor-El, Melanie and Shiva Phre about my "failure" with Juan and Cindy. I bared my soul, shared my humiliation and shame. I was afraid they'd blame me, think ill of me, believe that I am the evil, wicked witch woman that I sometimes can be. But, I was pleasantly surprised. They're all very sophisticated, well-versed in lots of specialized psychological and spiritual practices. They felt sorry, expressed their regrets and wished they could have been with us during the difficulties so they could have facilitated us so we would have come to a loving resolution.

It takes a village to raise a child and it takes a community to heal the wounds of a lifetime of pain. There's not a one of us who isn't suffering from the shock of our fear-based cultural programming and multi-generational dysfunction. We all need to look at our family conditioning weíve internalized from when we were kids and discover unconscious defenses--defenses triggered to this day by certain words and gestures. When our loved ones say triggering words, such as "Youíre a failure", which resonates with a criticism we have about ourselves from our childhood conditioning, we defend ourselves by projecting outward with unkind communication and violent behavior.

Conscious communities provide a myriad of mirrors. Our community members reflect our own defenses to us; they tell us where they perceive us to be defensive. When, from our loversí reactions, we see our own defenses we can face our underlying pain and heal. This level of healing can of course also be done in dyads. In a couple, one partner tends to dominate the other and it's easy to get away with a lot of stuff. Itís easy to fool yourself and one other person, but the variety of authentic input from many peers eliminates the bull and allows for the highest, fastest growth.

You may not be ready to really take a look at yourself. It's pretty intense and often quite frightening. But if you fail to see your defensiveness and instead live behind your defensive masks, others never know you and you donít know yourself from the feedback of others who see you evolving. The downside is that as long as one lives with facades, they never really know themselves. Think of life as a biofeedback system. If you allow input, you get to know yourself, come to terms with yourself and learn to love yourself. When you love yourself, others can more readily love you. Love comes full circle.

So even though the poly ride is rough, I still climb back on the saddle and love again. "Get along Little Doggie".

2. A SHRINK SHARES HIS EXPERIENCE OF TANTRA SCHOOL by S.P.


The first day introductions included a young woman artist, a middle aged super smart, woman, a couple from British Columbia, a retired marine; the teachers Sasha and Kira and then thereís me.

It has been an unbelievable experience! After forty years, of clinical psychiatry and consultation to many organizations and teaching in five medical colleges and seventy-five years of living this is the most honest wholistic expression of love and life I have encountered.

Sasha and Kira are both compassionate teachers who shared of themselves totally. They have created a program that demonstrates the real dynamic of life and enlightens whatís here and now. All chakra tantra looks like they integrated many diverse programs into a comprehensive whole and presented it in a way that any honest seeker can get it! They reenacted the "primal scene"and everyone was aghast and transfixed, it had a profound effect on everyone. The quality of sharing that followed I have never seen before and I have worked with many encounter, psychotherapy and growth groups before.

The rest of the program was comprehensive and expanded the awareness of all the chakras: role-playing and active listening, chakras and bija mantra, momís and dadíís mistakes, heal her hurts, yoni talks, tantra date, female sacred sector stimulation, heal his hurts, lingam talks, bless his base, holotropics, positives and soul drama, holotropic breathing and tantra ritual. Yoga was practiced every morning, for one and one half hours. The second week continues with choreograph your voices, voices in tantra, voices of relating, benefit from bonding, voice of the body, self-pleasuring ejaculatory control, gestalt experiments supervised tantra, gestalt group and puja party.

One of the insights that occurred to me is somehow they have unlocked another catalytic mix on the path for honest seekers to use in their searching for internal freedom. It is my goal to enhance this availability wherever and whenever I can.

In the future, this approach will be used to create the space for unconditional love for our children in growing more humane and loving persons, leading to peace on earth and good will to all.

3. ALTERNATE REALITIES (article by Janet Kira Lessin)

In 1958 when I was four years old my mother failed to protect me, her boyfriend orally raped me and I died. I was shown many alternative universes where my family suffered different fates as a result of my demise. In one my Mother died, another she was put in jail, and yet another she went to an insane asylum. In alternative universes the same variety of fates awaited my Father, Brother and Sister. Then I was shown this reality. Spiritual guides bade me chose. I chose this life as the only one I could live with.

Summer 1959, invisible beings teleported me in broad daylight to a mother ship hovering around the earth I was taken to a screening room and shown alternative universes outlining the fate of beloved Mother Earth. In one Earth exploded when an experiment by man went awry and sent a beam of energy to her core. In another, war destroyed three
quarters of humanity and Gaia suffered the equivalent damage. In another half destroyed, another a quarter and so on and so forth, the worlds getting less violent until I was shown utopia which I chose.

What did I chose for everybody? How is it that I have such power?

A few years ago, on an acid trip, I saw many universes outlining endless possibilities for my existence. Smiling, I'd known I'd seen these worlds before. I chose this road which led me to the life I share now with my husband.

When making love tantrically my beloved and I transcend our separate self-senses and he and I find ourselves traveling to those now familiar crossroads where myriad of worlds and timelines beacon. I always chose to return here.


August 12, 1983, scientist in Montauk, NY follow the 20-year biorhythm pattern of the earth and succeed in opening the other side of the time warp created by the USS Elridge during the Philadelphia Experiment (scientist sent a battleship through time) in 1943. Further experiments open multiple timelines revealing millions of outcomes for the earth's future. Superiors order the scientist to select this timeline. However, once chosen, the scientist realize they were duped by dark forces. Fearing further evil uses, they rebelled destroying the facility forcing it's closure (The Montauk Project:Experiment in Time, Nichols, P., 1992: NY, Sky Books). With the time equipment destroyed, how can humanity back to the timeline of the light?

Spring 1991, my doctor shook her head, read my file and told me I only had a few months to live. My lungs were collapsing and filling up with fluid and nothing seemed to stop their deterioration. My then husband, while loyal and dedicated, was a workaholic and emotionally unavailable. We were unable to solve our inability to communicate. Depressed, I accepted my fate as my life was dull and lonely. I fell into a deep sleep and was visited by an angel. He was tall, beautiful, androgynous with large blue eyes and flowing hair. I asked him who he was.

"Call me the Archangel Michael", he said. Michael told me that he was here to make love like to me like I've always wanted. His energy was light, loving and erotic and I found that I was on fire. I was tempted, overwhelmed by his radiant love and intense beauty. My husband lay beside me in my bed so I responded, "No, I can't make love to you as I
won't cheat on my husband."

"But I am your husband", Michael replied. He began to say more but stopped. Responding to my confusion he began to fade. "I'm leaving now, but don't worry. Someday this will all make sense to you." I fell asleep, my heart chakra expanded, hopelessly in love with a man of my dreams.

September 1997, I laid down to sleep after making love with Sasha, my new husband, my first night in his home in Maui. I was just drifting off to sleep when "Michael" appeared in my mind's eye and smiled. I bolted upright. "You, that was you!" I declared, remembering every detail of our long-ago encounter. Sasha laughed as I explained to him how he had
ghosted back and kept me from the brink of death. His love for me even then had given me renewed hope for life. I'd not recognized him--Sasha's dream self must have been his higher self who looked like he must have looked as he appeared when he was 25.

Maybe we don't need science or genius to save us from the dark road to war that we seem to be on these days. Perhaps the way to shift us to the reality of peace lies within ordinary people.

I'm probably insane. I began to split into multiple personalities at a fragile young age when I was overwhelmed by intense sexual energy from older people; relatives, neighbors, babysitters, etc. who were in charge of me. To maintain my integrity, my subconscious created an alternate reality----one in which I had never been raped, harmed or molested so
that I could maintain and continue a sense of normalcy. Fifty to a hundred years ago, I probably would've probably been institutionalized once the memories came forth and the irrational behavior began. However, when I began to remember all, I was in the good hands of the best shrink on this planet, who just so happened to be my husband. As for my
perpetrators, I've done the therapy and now I forgive them for I imagine they were confused--drawn to the light I brought forth from the other side.

Or perhaps I'm just normal. The more I research the history of the Earth, UFO's, the paranormal, metaphysics, religion, relationships and psychology, the more I discover that we are all suffering from group psychosis on one level and that we create our own realities that function as our operating systems in order to explain the world around ourselves and survive on a daily basis. Compare realities with others sometime and you'll find it's very difficult to come to a consensus with
any great number of individuals on more than one or two areas. Try discussing politics, religion or relationships and you'll see what I mean.

In my current reality, normal to me means that I am a tantra teacher and relationship counselor by trade. I'm polyamorous and live in community with a man with whom I am sexual, recently joined by another man and woman, whom I plan to be sexual with. They brought their twelve year old daughter, whom I'm not going to be sexual with but will be a mother to. I believe that tantra and polyamory are both high spiritual practices. From my research and life experiences I've learned that UFO's are very real and that religions have been created and perpetrated as a means to
keep humanity from spiritual awareness so humanity cannot become conscious and enlightened. Humans never actualize their full potential and power and remain subservient, slaves to the power-elite who keep them in economic dependency and total control.

As a result of my research, I've discovered a basic principal: as within, so without, as above, so below. Which means, my inner turmoil effects my interpersonal relating which creates my external disharmony which acted out creates my personal war. Take this and multiply it exponentially with all the rest of us who are doing the same and you have the potential for World War III.

War and the rumors of war have been used for thousands of years as a method of crowd control. Take a look at history and the pattern becomes painfully apparent. Periods of simulated peace allowed humanity a false sense of security from whence they expand and grow, only to see all collapse time and again with the onset of war. This system keeps us
destabilized, in root-chakra, base survival mode and has never allowed us to achieve our full potential, both spiritually and technologically. The events of September 11 clearly showed us the illusion of peace more than any other event in history.
However, there are no victims. Individually and collectively we human beings have "agreed" to this system because on some level we found more comfort remaining in the matrix. Perhaps it more closely resonates with our own needs for security and control. The answers lie within each of us individually and I can only speculate how our individual reactions
reflect the collective.

As you can see by this expose, it's easy to mentally zoom between the global and personal. From the global perspective of suffering, war and ruination, it appears that I have little influence over the grand scheme. However, if I take personal responsibility and begin the necessary changes within myself, I realize that I am like the ripple in the pond that begins with self and gradually effects every molecule of water in the pond and reaches every shore. I do effect the entire world.

My first near death experience in 1958 showed me that I have the power to chose the universe of utopia. In the seven subsequent near death episodes that followed, I repeatedly saw that I am the chooser. As I return to myself I look inside for the seeds of unrest that affect my personal universe. The childhood hymn, "Let there be peace on earth and let it begin with me", echos in my head. While my ego self looks at the grand design and says, "I can only do me", my aware self who has touched the face of God and realizes God is me, realizes as I do me, I am all and all is me and I can do all.

Consciousness is. Despite dark forces which we may label as evil, Satan, Bin Laden or Bush, the instinctual desire to return to source supercedes all. Peace IS. As each of us goes within and chooses peace, we chose love, we chose God and we remain in peace in love no matter what happens around us. Like the eye of the hurricane, the calm in the storm, even wars can erupt and we can remain committed to peace. Peace is already here. It exists. The time for peace is up to you. Each individual can effect the whole by saying yes to peace, creation and love every moment of every day. We have the power in every action within and without to change the tides of war, affect the collective consciousness, shift the
morphogenic field and chose the universe of utopia.

I chose peace, for myself and mine. My inner unrest fades and all that remains is love.


4. CONSCIOUS CONNECTIONS - SATURDAYS 7-9:30 PM
Dating club for singles, couples and polys where you can find new loves, enhance your current relationship or expand your horizons to loving more. Come meet that person you've been waiting
for or that special couple of your dreams. Dance into the night or
engage in stimulating conversation. Join the magical mix of the
Conscious Connection where adults of all ages, preferences and
persuasions meet to enjoy the music and company of other like-minded
people. Let your hair down and allow the Maui moon atmosphere transform
the evening into an unforgettable moment in time.

The Conscious Connection is a social party that is held every Friday
night from 7pm - midnight. And if you think that is fun, come back the
next night for Saturday Tantra Connection Parties where you merge
romance and fantasy in the surroundings of a safe and sensual
environment. Both Conscious Connection and Tantra Connection Parties are
sponsored by the School of Tantra. $50 week or $250/10 weeks. For more details see our web site
www.schooloftantra.com or call 244-4103.
5. TANTRA CONNECTION PARTIES - SATURDAYS 7-10PM
Advanced experiential parties for singles, couples, polys or playcouples. Join us at our clothes-optional, private home with seminar space and vacation rental suites in the West Maui Mountains (minutes from the
Airport) for Tantra Connection--structured parties for adults of all
ages, preferences and persuasions. Beginners, seasoned practitioners and
singles enjoy Tantra Connection Parties, where you meet to enjoy the
music and company of other like-minded people. Tantra Connection acts as
both a dating service for singles and lifestyle couples and as a support
group for those exploring tantra and alternative relations. A typical
Saturday-night party starts with ice-breakers: friendly, playful
conversations, boundary-setting techniques and light energy exchanging
opportunities. You get to know others as people and connect in
delightful ways at your comfort level. You learn sacred sector massage
and allow your Goddess to free her ejaculate (amrita). Practice with
others makes the energy in the room electric, exiting and erotic. Flow
freely, come together to talk, say your desires and wants, give
feedback, share thoughts, express yourself, relax in the hot tub
smelling night-blooming jasmine under starlit skies or move into one of
our private nests for more intimate experiences. Our mix of tantra,
swinging and polyamory lets you experience fun, love and eroticism. $50 week, $250/10 weeks.
See: http://www.schooloftantra.com/Events/TantraConnectionParties.htm

6. JOIN OUR CONSCIOUS COMMUNITY ON MAUI

Apply to join a conscious, tantric, naturist, polyamorist, meditative,
psychospiritual community nestled a Maui jungle.

You must be kind, honest, loving, open-minded, spiritual, neat, clean,
tidy, quiet, reliable, responsible, financially-secure, non-tobacco
smoking, environmentally-conscious, sex-positive and committed to work
on and heal your family of origin hangups to join this experimental
community and create a new model for extended family. We model our
new-paradigm community on conscious communities like Zegg and Harbin Hot
Springs, based on love and support for one another, kind, open and
authentic communication, tantra, intentional family and intimate
friendships.

Accommodations vary from private bedroom with shared bath and kitchen to
private three-room. Members work weekly in community garden and grounds.
Community activities include emotional support groups, workshops,
parties and hosting. Applicants trained in healing arts, music,
construction and gardening would help lots. Adults only. No new pets (we
already have many). For application call 808/242-5921: leave name,
address, phone and fax.


7. TANTRA SCHOOL: December 23-28, 2002, January 13-24, 2003 on Maui

Tantra School teaches you (whether you're beginner, seasoned tantrica,
single or part of a couple) how to be an experienced lover, sexual
healer, attractive date or perfect life mate. The Lessins demonstrate
and you practice the art of conscious loving. You learn techniques of
All-Chakra Tantra, client-centered therapy, voice dialogue, gestalt
therapy, holotropic breathing and tantra and vini yoga so you feel
strong, stretched and centered. You also:
Explore your own life history to heal old wounds, expand consciousness,
and grow spiritually.
Emotionally distinguish your lovers from fathers and mothers and stop
projecting inner conflicts outward onto beloveds
Experience (then lead fellow students through) imago exercises to heal
one another's hurts.Rate and better your relationships
Honor your own inner voices and the voices of others
Unhook from former lovers
Mutually uplift yourself and those you love
Free your inner child
Delve dreams for messages
Liberate yourself from parental and societal programs and slave mentality,
Upload addictions to preferences
Evoke the female ejaculate
Create full-bodied (kundalini) orgasms
Master ejaculatory control
Communicate clearly and authentically; share straight-talk
Understand more about yourself, others and life
Increase your levels of empathy, become self-assured and autonomous
Learn how to turn sexual encounters into transcendent experiences,
portals to experiencing oneness with beloveds and the Universe.

Tantra School Prices: $495 per week (Monday-Sunday includes Conscious Connections and Tantra Connection groups)

$100 per day or individually by class: 1 hour class: $25, 1.5 hour class = $35, 2 hour class - $50, 2.5 hour class = $65, 3 hour class = $75

* Free classes

For Schedule of Classes for December, see #10, at the end
of this newsletter:

8. GESTALT FUN: January 22, 2003, 11AM -1 PM & 6-8PM led by Sasha
Led by Sasha, who has been using gestalt therapy as a basic tool in his
practice since 1970. In this engaging experience, you heighten your
self-awareness, contact with others, and experience of what it means to
be a member of a group so you experience separateness and grow
personally. You learn how to integrate thinking, feeling and behavior
with lovers for yourself and those you facilitate. Free, by reservation.
244-4103

9. YOGA: December 23-28, 2002, January 13-24, 2003 on Maui
Led by Sasha, who's a Certified Vinlyoga Instructor. 90 minutes nearly
continuous slow-motion stretching, strengthening, breathing and
meditation. Beginners & seasoned students welcome. Free. Call 244-4103

10. LOVE A WOMAN: A DAY-LONG, COACHED TANTRIC DATE: Dec. 27, 2002 & January 15, 2003
Janet & Sasha lead.
In this class, you learn how to help a women open all chakras as you
communicate kindly and effectively, heal their wounds, remove their (and
your) limits to loving in connected lovemaking rituals that bring
consciousness to lovemaking, where lovemaking heightens your spiritual
awareness. The Lessins demonstrate how to give women the mind-blowing
amrita (female ejaculate) orgasm. 11AM - 8:00 PM. $100 per person. See
http://schooloftantra.com/Seminars/tantra/HowToReallyLoveAWoman.htm

11. SCHEDULE FOR DECEMBER TANTRA SCHOOL

December 23 - Monday

9 -10:30PM  CTA 20 Roleplaying and Active Listening
10 AM - 12 noon  CTA  60 Life Chapters
1-5 PM  CTA  10 Chakras & Bija Mantra

December 24 - Tuesday
9 -10:30 AM  CTA 30 Yoga: Breath, Posture, Sequencing
11 AM - 1 PM   CTA 21 Choreograph Your Voices
3 - 5 PM  CTA 22 Voices in Tantra, CTA  23 Voice of Relating: Benefit 
from Bonding

December 26  Thursday
9 -10:30 AM  CTA 30 Yoga: Breath, Posture, Sequencing
11 AM - 1 PM: CTA 70 Remember Mom's Mistakes
3 - 5 PM - CTA  71 Deal with Dad's Delicts

December 27  Friday
9 -10:30 AM  CTA 30 Yoga: Breath, Posture, Sequencing
11 AM - 1 PM  CTA 24 Imago Healing 1: Heal Her Hurts & Yoni Talks 
3 - 5 PM CTA  11 Tantra Date 1: Female Sacred Sector Stimulation
7 -10 PM - CTA 92 Facilitate Conscious Connection Exercises

December 28 Saturday
9 -10:30 AM  CTA 30 Yoga: Breath, Posture, Sequencing
11 AM - 1 PM CTA  11 Tantra Date 1: Female Sacred Sector Stimulation
3 - 5 PM CTA 14 Tantra Ritual
7 -10 PM - CTA 92 Facilitate Advanced Tantra Connections

 

PROGRAM FOR TANTRA SCHOOL CLASSES
January 13 -25, 2002

January 13 - Monday
8:30 -10AM CTA 30 Intro to White Tantra Yoga
10:30AM-12 noon CTA 20 Roleplaying and Active Listening
2 AM - 5PM CTA 10 Chakras & Bija Mantra

January14 - Tuesday
8:30 -10AM CTA 30 Yoga: Breath, Posture, Sequencing
10:30 AM- 12:00 noon CTA 70 Remember Mom's Mistakes
6PM-7:30 CTA 71 Deal with Dad's Defects

January15 - Wednesday
8:30 -10AM CTA 30 Yoga: Breath, Posture, Sequencing
11 AM - 1 PM CTA 24 Imago Healing 1: Heal Her Hurts
2:00 CTA Yoni Talks
6PM-7:30 CTA CTA 11 Tantra Date 1: Female Sacred Sector Stimulation

January 16 - Thursday
8:30 -10AM CTA 30 Yoga: Breath, Posture, Sequencing
11 AM - 1 PM CTA 27 Imago Healing 2: Heal His Hurts & Lingam Talks
CTA 13 Tantra Date 2: Love His Lingam, Bless His Base

January 17 - Friday
8:30 -10AM CTA 30 Yoga: Breath, Posture, Sequencing
11 AM - 12 noon CTA 73 Intro to Holotropics, CTA 75 Pastlives & Soul Dramas
1PM -4 PM Holotropic Breathing
7 - 9 PM CTA 14 Tantra Ritual

January 18 - Saturday
7 -11 PM - CTA 92 Facilitate Tantra Connection Party

January 19 - Sunday
Sundown: Celebration of the Body, Little Beach, Makena


January 20 - Monday
8:30 -10AM CTA 32 Yoga: Breathing
10:30AM-12 noon CTA 21 Choreograph Your Voices
3 - 5 PM CTA 22 Voices in Tantra, CTA 23 Voice of Relating: Benefit
from Bonding
January 21 - Tuesday
8:30 -10AM CTA 32 Yoga: Bandhas
10:30AM-12 noon CTA 12 Body Image
6PM-7:30 PM CTA 25 Voice of the Body, CTA 18 Self-Pleasuring and CTA 32
Ejaculatory Control

January22- Wednesday
8:30 -10AM CTA 30 Yoga: Bandha Practice
11 AM - 12 noon CTA 40 Gestalt Ideals
6PM-7:30 CTA 42 Gestalt Experiments

January 23 - Thursday
8:30-10AM CTA 32 Yoga: Visualization
6PM-7:30 PM CTA 91 Supervised Tantra

January 24 - Friday
8:30 -10AM CTA 30 Yoga: Review
10:30AM-12 noon CTA 53 Gestalt Group in Nature
2- 5:00 Retrospective and Parting Puja

January 25 - Saturday
7 -11 PM - CTA 92 Facilitate Tantra Connection Party


Tantra School Prices: $495 per week (Monday-Sunday includes Conscious Connections and Tantra Connection groups)

$100 per day or individually by class: 1 hour class: $25, 1.5 hour class = $35, 2 hour class - $50, 2.5 hour class = $65, 3 hour class = $75

* Free classes

Thank you all for supporting this work by passing along this message to your personal email list and to your member lists and groups. If you are not subscribed to this newsletter but received it through another party, you may SUBSCRIBE by sending an email to tantra@schooloftantra.com or click the following link to join one of our newsletters featuring subjects like polyamory, tantra, yoga, community, UFOlogy and Sumerian Studies:
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Janet Kira Lessin, with her husband, Dr. Sasha Lessin, owns the School of Tantra, an educational, healing & spiritual growth center in Maui, HI. Janet frequently contributes to Loving More and has appeared on John Walsh, Leeza, Talk or Walk, Time Zone International, Inside Edition, Extra and in Time, Hustler & Penthouse discussing polyamory. She lives in a poly/tantric community, an experiment in conscious loving creating new paradigms for family and relationships. She's the co-author of How to Really Love a Woman and the PolyTantra Puja and is currently writing book one of a three-part auto-biographical novel, The Dance of the Souls.



School of Tantra, 1371 Malaihi Road, Wailuku, Maui, HI 96793
Janet Kira & Sasha Lessin, Ph. D.
808-244-4103 (office), 877-244-4103 (voice mail)
www.schooloftantra.com

JANET KIRA LESSIN, with her husband, Dr. Sasha Lessin, owns the School of Tantra, an educational, healing & spiritual growth center in Maui, HI. Janet frequently contributes to Loving More and has appeared on John Walsh, Leeza, Talk or Walk, Time Zone International, Inside Edition, Extra and in Time, Hustler & Penthouse discussing polyamory. She lives in a poly/tantric community, an experiment in conscious loving creating new paradigms for family and relationships. She's the co-author of How to Really Love a Woman and the PolyTantra Puja and is currently writing book one of a three-part auto-biographical novel, The Dance of the Souls. You may contact her at: janet@schooloftantra.com,

SASHA LESSIN, PH.D. (U.C.L.A.), a psychotherapist and relationship counselor since the 1970s, helps people agree, compromise and work out their differences. He's studied counseling with Drs. Irv Katz and David Quigley (Hypnotherapy), Stan Grof (Holotropic Breathing), Roger Woolger (Jungian Past Life Regression), William Baldwin (Spirit Releasement) and Hal and Sidra Stone (Voice Dialogue) Heís certified as a yoga instructor by Gary Kraftsow, M.A. (Viniyoga). Sasha helps lovers resolve their differences, work things out, compromise, create win-win scenarios and re-connect emotionally. Heís studied tantra/sacred loving with Lori Grace and Charles and Caroline Muir from whom he learned how to teach people to connect sexually. He lives and loves with his wonderful wife, Janet Kira Lessin and their extended family in their home/school/community/spiritual growth center in Maui. You may contact him at alessin@aloha.net.

All the counselors listed in this newsletter are available for private sessions. Please contact them at their email addresses or private phone numbers listed above to schedule an appointment. To register for any of our seminars, playshops, parties or programs, contact our office.

16. SEMINAR RATING CODE

A - Art

B - Balanced numbers of heterosexuals & bisexuals. Same sex couples always welcome

C - Communications

D - Dance

E - Experiential

F - Free

G - Personal, emotional and spiritual growth

H - History

L - Lecture

N - Nudity

P - Party

S - Spiritual

SX -Sexually Explicit

Y - Yoga

X - Sexual Content

The workshops or events can have more than one.

Thank you all for supporting this work by passing along this message to your personal email list and to your member lists and groups. If you are not subscribed to this newsletter but received it through another party, you may SUBSCRIBE by sending an email to tantra@schooloftantra.com or click the following link to join one of our newsletters featuring subjects like polyamory, tantra, yoga, community, UFOlogy and Sumerian Studies. You may also view back issues of Synergy:
http://www.schooloftantra.com/Newletters/Newsletters.htm

School of Tantra, 1371 Malaihi Road, Wailuku, Maui, HI 96793
Janet Kira & Sasha Lessin, Ph. D.
808-244-4103 (office), 877-244-4103 (voice mail)

tantra@schooloftantra.com

www.schooloftantra.com

Coming Soon:

World Tantra Association: www.worldtantraassociation.com

Tantra Theosophical Society: www.tantratheosophicalsociety.com

Tantra Connection: www.tantraconnection.com
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6-30 no refund

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If full we do not receive full payment 7 days before the event, reservation and deposit is forfeit. 

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