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Consider a tantric poly (=polyamorous--loving
two or more) lifestyle where you share tantra–sacred
sex. In a polyamorous and tantric life, a poly-tantra
lifestyle, you make more love and relate at your best.
There’s four parts to this book. First, The Poly Tantric
Lifestyle, Janet shares our personal experiences loving
many.
Part I, The Poly Tantric Lifestyle, Janet’s experiences
in polyamory and tantra. Janet combines the personal and
the universal and she alternates among her pedantic,
erotic and spiritual reflections. She shares her
reflections in essays she wrote as she lived her loving.
Her amorous experiments lead us to blend All-Chakra
Tantra––our variety of sacred loving--with polyamory––relating
to contemporaneous multiple lovers. The synthesis we
create is the PolyTantric Lovestyle.
The polytantric lovestyle heals emotional pain and
social separation for the individuals involved and can
heal the world as well. Share this lovestyle with us and
experience more challenge, delight, satisfaction,
amusement, entertainment and love.
In Part II, Share Sacred Sexuality, Janet and Sasha
teach you tantric rituals to heal sexual and gender
hurts and to connect on all levels of consciousness in a
polyamorous group.
Part III: Polyamory Advice, presents questions from
polys–questions you’d ask--and Janet and Sasha’s
responses
Last Part, IV, Knowing Yourselves & Knowing Each Other,
Sasha gives experiments that teach you skills we’ve
developed for creating, maintaining and enhancing
lovers’ open relationships, triads, love groups and
networks. Try the experiments and you’ll add
compassionate communication, empathetic active
listening, imago healing, relationship imaging, Voice
Dialogue centering to your repertoire as a lover.
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CONTENTS
Preface: The Poly Tantric Lovestyle
Love Beyond the Matrix
I. EXPLORE LOVING MORE: Janet’s Personal Account
Getting Closer Every Day: Polyamorous Synergy
Changes the World
Women Get Most from Tantra and Polyamory
Primary Partners Prep for Poly with Tantra
Truth, Trauma and Transition
External Relationship Energy
Poly for The Vulnerable Inner Child
Tantra Touch Releases Imprints
Are We Really Mono-Poly?
Perils and Pearls of Polyamory
Goddess Gifts Goddess
Two Women & a Man
Two Men & a Woman
Bisexuality’s a Touchy Subject
Couple Dating Another Couple
Two Couples Living & Loving Together
Four Men and Two Ladies
Connecting at a PolyTantra Ritual
Multiple Penetration: a Path to Enlightenment
Poly Pilgrim’s Progress
Ride the Rhythms of Relationships
Pitfalls of Polyamory
Still Tantric After All These Years
Still Poly After All These Years
Poly Love Pods
II. KNOW YOUR SELVES by Sasha
Survey Your Several Selves
Center: Embrace Inner Opposites
Consult Critic, Comfort Kid & Satisfy Sexy Self
Parent Yourselves
III KNOW EACH OTHER by Sasha
Drop Damaging Demands
Listen with Love: Validate, Feel Each Other
Roleplay
Share Intimate Confidences
Listen With Love: Validate, Feel Each Other
Learn From Yesterday’s Loves
Mediate Your Mutual Imagos
Heal Her Hurts
Value Her Vaginal Verbalizations
Heal His Hurts
Empathize, Stay Linked
Benefit from Bonding
Grow Individually, Generate Poly Pod Synergy
IV. SHARE SACRED SEXUALITY
Polyamory & Ahimsa: Talk with Lovers' Lovers
Center Yourself Between Inner Giver & Taker
State Desires & Limitations
Free Feelings in Sex and Puja Play
Tantra for the Polyamorous
Adore Each Aphrodite
Coach Catharsis
Delight Each Dionysus
Bless His Base
Rotate and Relate
Women Charge Each Other’s Chakras
Goddesses Gift Each Other with Primaries
Touch Two or Three at a Time
V. Q & A: POLYAMORY ADVICE
Consider All Your Relationship Choices
Why Choose Polyamory
More Sex?
Can She Create Alchemy If She Lacks Chemistry with
Him
Her Husband Loved Another Woman
Wife Attracted to Another Man
When Your Beloved Loves Another
Guilt Over Loving More Can Help Your Relating
He Wants More Sex Than She
Boyfriend Threatens Withdrawal at Lover’s New
Connection
Fears Mate Will Prefer New Lover
Starting Triad
He Has Two Loves but Obsesses on One
Wife's Encouragement Heals Husband's Lovers
Living with Wife's New Lover
She’s Scared He’ll Reject Her Poly Wanna-Being
Her Husband Loved Another Woman
Wife Attracted to Another Man
Says He’ll Go When She Loves Another
APPENDICES
Fathom Female Features
Meditate on the Male Member
Appreciate Your Pleaser But Talk to Your Taker Too
Authors’ Biographies: Dr. Sasha & Janet Lessin
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