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Question:
I'm attracted to a guy. I like his personality--the
way he thinks, his values, his sense of humor. But I'm
not sexually turned on to him? Will this change?
Sasha: On the one hand, you might create passion. If you enjoy this
man and feel uplifted with him, give him time and
energy. Commit with him to explore a
relationship. Focus on what has heart and
meaning between you and interact with care and
consciousness. Show each other how you like to
be loved--sexually, emotionally and spiritually.
Go together to a relationship workshop and learn to
listen actively, speak lovingly and support each other
emotionally.
Attend a tantra workshop or
study the links on teaching a man how
to pleasure you and how
to pleasure a man. When you feel love and trust, connect
on all chakras (energy centers--brow (intuition),
perineum (security), belly (power), heart (love),
throat (communication) and crown (spiritual).
Book a private session with a daka or dakini--a
practitioner of the ancient and modern arts
of love. You might cultivate sexual
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Blessed
Damozel - Beauty & the Beast by Kevin Barnes |
On the other hand, you still might not, even with all this focused
consciousness, turn-on sexually with your friend. Nonetheless, you'll learn much about yourselves and still have much to share.
Come meet others of like mind at the
World Polyamory Association
conferences.
Find other polys to mate, date and relate
with at the
POLYAMORY CONNECTION
ALL
CHAKRA TANTRA FOR THE POLYAMOROUS
RELEASE
EMOTIONS IN POLYAMOROUS LOVING
The
Pearls
and Perils of Polyamory:
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Investigate the possibilities
of a polyamorous (more than one love) lifestyle. Ask us how
you can make more love in your life, relate from your highest self
with your lovers and housemates, uplevel jealousy into compersion
(joy at your lovers' joy), and give them each the attention,
companionship, touch and sexual-loving they need.
We'll teach you empathetic active listening, imago healing,
relationship imaging, Voice Dialogue centering, tantric activation
and sex magic to your lovelife. What we advocate, above all, is CHOICE.
We want you to make discerning choices that serve you, that
facilitate your personal growth and evolution and at the same time
honor and respect the people you love and are committed to.
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Bali
Painting - I Made Djata
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