POLYAMORY: THE MORE LOVING PERSPECTIVE
Dr. Sasha (Alex) Lessin & Janet Kira Lessin

Answer Questions from the More Loving Perspective
  
 
Why People Choose Polyamory 


Question: Why do people decide to be polyamorous? 

Sasha: One reason that came from a good friend when asked, "Why did you decide to be polyamorous?" 

  Our friend said: "I've been in many monogamous relationships, many fraught with jealousy and fear of my partner finding someone "better than me" or vice-versa. I'd speak harshly, distain or mock my partner and get away with it. My monogamous partners couldn't get me to stop my digs and sarcasm. 

 "Then I joined a tantric family. I got several intimates who call me on my unkindness. I'm so glad. I learned that when I hurt someone else, I'm really hurting myself the most. 

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     Also, I now know that I'm a lovable, loving person, because I have several men and women communicating that to me. I'm not afraid and acting out. I feel a lot freer, a lot happier in my soul.  There is always someone to love with, and the variety keeps each relationship special. I wouldn't go back to monogamy for the world." 

 

ALL CHAKRA TANTRA FOR THE POLYAMOROUS

RELEASE EMOTIONS IN POLYAMOROUS LOVING

The POLY ADVISORS - DR. SASHA & JANET LESSIN ANSWER YOUR QUESTIONS 
Why People Choose Polyamory
He Wants Sex More Than She

Can She Create Alchemy If She Lacks Chemistry with Him

Her Husband Loved Another Woman

Wife Attracted to Another Man

Fears Mate Will Prefer New Lover

He Threatens Exit When She Lovers Another
Fears Ostracism for Poly Orientation
Starting Triad

Cure Lovers' Sarcasm

Has Two Loves Obsesses on One

Her Encouragement Heals His Lovers

Living With Wife's New Lover

POLYAMORY RELATIONSHIP COACHING & COUNSELING

   Threesomes
    Couples Dating, Mating & Relating
    Moresomes 
    Love-Ins

Send your questions or comments on  this article or on polyamory to 
Dr. Sasha & Janet Lessin at 

polyamory@schooloftantra.com
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Say if you  want your answers by private email or, with  pseudonyms, in this poly advisors' page.

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