So, if you have an orgasmic wife, you’ll be happy for the rest of your life. She’ll want to make love more because it’s fun, loving warm and intimate. The more you give, the more you’ll get and in the long run, you’ll learn that giving and receiving are one and the same.

Mike, a warm and gentle Cancerian, was a sensitive lover who learned long ago that the road to his greatest passion was by satisfying the Goddess first. When he honored his ladies orally, he observed that they seemed to ride waves when they orgasmed, which increased gradually in size until he thought they could bear no more. Then, he’d continue. As he held tight, it felt as if his lovers broke through another level of waves that were even higher than the first. On top of many levels, they seemed to have a wide variety of orgasms.

When he would finally have intercourse with them and experience his own orgasm, he noticed his orgasm was only one type, one level. He knew he could experience those waves and a multitude of orgasms types too, but wondered how. If only he had heard about tantric sex.

Hesitate to Ejaculate

What Mike and others like him don’t realize is that they too can ride high orgasm waves if they master ejaculatory control. In orgasmic functioning, men and women are polar opposites. The more a woman orgasms, the more she can orgasm and the higher she can go. The more a man holds back his ejaculate (typical Western orgasm), the more he learns how to orgasm, the more orgasms he can have and the higher he goes. Eventually, both men and women experience full-body, extended and kundalini orgasms complete with kreas (rushes of energy that make the body jerk, feel good and look like small epileptic seizures).

In the buildup to a man’s ejaculation, his autonomic nervous system is dominated by its sympathetic branch. The sympathetic part of the autonomic nervous system releases the chemicals sympathin and adrenelin leading to peripheral vasodialation and visceral vasoconstriction. In other words, when a man is making love, the blood leaves his guts and moves into his face, extremities and penis giving him the energy. The peripheral neurons fire continuously and metabolites (waste products of neural burning) accumulate at the myroneural junctions (where nerves and muscles come together).

         When he ejaculates, he goes into a phase of autonomic nervous system functioning known as parasympathetic overcompensation wherein the parasympathetic part of his central nervous system releases the chemical acetecholine which causes peripheral vasoconstriction and viseral vasodialation. The acetecholine cleanses the metabolites that accumulated in the muscle-nerve junctions in the excitation phase of lovemaking. In other words, the blood leaves his head, arms, legs and penis and goes to his guts to help him recuperate because he’s just run the equivalent of a small marathon and he feels sleepy. This signal to retreat, regenerate and relax is why so many men "come and go".