many couples the answer is ejaculatory control.
a man learns to ejaculate from choice rather than automatically,
he moves his lovemaking to the highest levels of ecstasy possible
for himself and his lover. If he masters the ability to hold his
ejaculate and direct his sexual energy up his spine and out his
crown into his beloved, he not only increases pleasure to
unimaginable levels for both of them, hell eventually achieve
full-body, kundalini and extended orgasms. By staying connected
longer, hell reach new levels of love and intimacy with his
to Help The Man Delay Ejaculation
are many ways to master your ejaculate to gain control over the
decision to squirt or not to squirt, some which you can do alone
to condition your body and some you practice with your mate to
condition your relationship.
the Taoist sex tradition, men have orgasms without ejaculation and
injaculates instead. They believe that by pressing an acupuncture
point located halfway between the anus and scrotum (the Jen-Mo
Point or Million Dollar Spot), that ejaculation can be reversed
and the semen recycled from the prostate reabsorbed into the blood
creating a better orgasm. The semen contains a great deal of the
Vital Life Force and ejaculation represents a loss of vital
energy, hormones and nutriends and early death. Cessation of
ejaculation and menstruation is the avenue to perpetual life
Million Dollar Spot
one of the most common and simplest ways to stop ejaculation is to
reach underneath the scrotum and press the "million dollar
spot", where the seminal vessels empty into the scrotum and
stop the flow of semen by pressing on the base of those tubes.
However, this is not the most advisable method as you are stopping
the rush of energy (which is normally flowing downward) in an
unnatural way and could cause small blood vessels to burst. Its
best to master control of your body and stop your ejaculation
through managing your breath and pulling energy up and recycling
yogic holds (bandhas) are the key to ejaculatory control for many.
Review the detailed description for bahdhas outlined in chapter 6.
Master the three holds; throat hold, belly hold and pelvis hold
and send energy out your crown into your beloved.
how to control your own body and not using external pressure
points is a far healthier practice. Recognize your bodys
internal cues. If you reach that point where you feel it is
inevitable that you will ejaculate, stop moving, pull the energy
up and out your crown chakra and practice the yogic breathing.
begin mastering your ejaculation, follow this simple procedure.
Self stimulate or have your partner stimulate your penis raising
the energy as you get excited. Use a numbering scale of 1-10 to
measure your level of arousal. Ten is over the top and you have
ejaculated. Nine is the point of ejaculatory inevitability, where
you feel your seminal vessel about to empty and youre close to
coming. When you reach an 8, stop stimulating your penis, empty
out all the air from your lungs, suck up your belly, imagine
sending energy from your base chakra up through all the chakras in
your spine and out the top of the crown into your beloved, and
pulse your PC muscles. Pause a few minutes till you regain control
and begin the cycle again.