Powerful emotions may arise for men as for women during male sacred sector stimulation. There are two areas inside a man's anus that love to be touched that can be erogenous and beneficial, the prostate gland and the male sacred sector.

Set the tone and space for the male sacred sector massage. For many men this is a frightening and vulnerable place to be, for they have never allowed themselves to be penetrated and penetration can often evoke issues over manhood and homophobia because they may feel that there is something "homosexual" about the practice, especially if they enjoy it.

If you have been invited to do this healing work for a man, know that this is a position of grace and honor. You may want to wear gloves however you need not concern yourself about germ transmission if your hands are clean.

Massage the man’s penis to a heightened state of arousal while maintaining eye contact and gently reassuring him with loving strokes across his chest, arms and legs. Keep talking to him as you monitor his progress. Encourage sounds. Reassure him. You may want to elevate his buttocks in order to create a more comfortable angle for yourself. Use plenty of lubrication to avoid friction and chafing.

Prepare the area for penetration by gently massaging around the outside of the anus while still focusing attention on the penis and it’s stimulation. After a period of gentle preparation, ask permission to enter his sacred space.

Invite him to pull your finger into his rosebud. Enter slowly at first and just hold your finger there until he relaxes into the feeling. Look into his eyes and synchronize your breath. Reach in and up towards the navel in a "come hither" stroke as you massage his sacred sector also known as the "million dollar spot". Massage this junction through the intervening tissues, the area where the seminal vesicles and prostate meet. This is the indentation that you feel under the scrotum from the outside. There, you have the spot.

Massage His Prostate 

Insert your finger into the anus and reach back and up toward the navel, about an inch or two inside the and, and press on the dome shaped pea found in the direction of the penis. Massage this gently. Allow emotions. Continue for a while.

Encourage your partner to fully eliminate before beginning this procedure so he doesn’t associate this new function with the old one, even though the sensations may be similar.

Encourage him to go as long as he possibly can without ejaculating. Help him with breath and visualization to pull the energies up his chakras and out his crown into you. Hold still and stimulate when appropriate. However, if he does ejaculate, press on the prostate gland during ejaculation, or when he is close to ejaculating. Some men experience orgasms through prostate stimulation alone.

Besides feeling wonderful, massaging the prostrate gland is a good health practice and has been found to prevent prostate cancer for men.