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Learn how to process the emotional material released when
their inner recesses are touched in tantric ritual.
When you or a Giver you’re coaching explores a Receiver’s
yoni or base chakra, the Receiver may block pleasure, orgasm and
ejaculation. If the Receiver tenses, numbs or burns at the
internal touch, encourage Receiver to free associate, to
remember touch, sex and times that traumatized or closed her or
him down emotionally and sexually. She or he may have past
life memories or fantasies.
If the Receiver yells, cries, laughs or makes strange sounds,
say, “Let your feelings out.” Hold Receiver while she or
he screams, sobs and says what s/he needs to say to each person
she thinks hurt or neglected her. If she’s angry at you,
say, “Express it louder. Let me know how mad I make you.”
Stay centered.
Ask Receiver to fantasize and roleplay redoing the painful,
humiliating or inappropriate scenes that traumatized her or him;
keep your fingers lightly on the area that stimulated catharsis.
Enact the part of her or his father, mother or lover the way
Receiver wished they were in the scene she or he recalled.
When s/he relaxes again, move your fingers to and from the
area that stimulated the painful memories and an area that felt
good when touched. Let your fingers stimulate these two
areas till she says she enjoys touch both places.
If the Receiver images her- or himself or another figure with
whom she or he identifies in another body, another time, ask her
or him to recount and experientially relive the main events of
this pastlife. Tell Receiver. “Express your thoughts and
feelings aloud.” [Wait for Receiver to voice the emotions]
"See the main turning points of the prior life.
If you get darkness, or no visions, imagine that means you
died. Replay the story aloud, just before it darkens.
"Forgive yourself and anyone you resented.
"Say your last words and thoughts, then relive your death.
"Separate from the body. As the separated soul, feel peace.
Rejoin loved ones who already died. Float with them toward a
light.
"Meet the karma committee and your guide. They review the
lessons you learned in that life. Become the guide and
voice--say out loud--the lessons from the lapsed life you just
lived.
"As guide, tell Receiver how to bring the lessons of that
life into this one."
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