Tell your Receiver, "Relax
on your back, Sweetheart. Breathe deeply.
"Let me gaze into your eyes.
"If you like, Ill massage, then
kiss your genital drapes and the valence over your pearl."
If she says yes, say, "Make sounds
and direct me with words; give me feedback while I lick and stroke."
Lightly stroke her outer labia. Gently roll
her clitoral hood around the clitoral crown; but dont directly stimulate the
crown yet. When her outer vaginal lips swell, revealing the inner lips, softly
trace circles, spirals, horizonals, verticals, diagonals, and figure-eights on
them with your fingers. Alternate long, short, inventive, sensitive and playful
strokes. Lightly tap, knead and pinch the hood and labia ten or fifteen minutes.
When the inner labia also become quite
swollen with blood, say, "Would you like me to polish your pearl?"
(pearl = clitoral crown). If yes, honor her yoni with your mouth and tongue.
Blow on her genitals. Plant baby kisses on her clitoris. Twill your tongue round
the crown and lick her labia. Lap softly into her yoni as you
continue gazing into her eyes. Salivate generously; lubricate the orifice.
After twenty to thirty minutes honoring her
yoni, say, "Id like to enter your sacred cave with this (right ring)
finger." If she agrees, lick your finger so its quite moist (or use
an internal lubricant like Probe or neem oil). Place the tip of your ring finger
pad just inside her vaginal opening. Say, "Pull my finger in."
When you feel her vaginal muscles pulsing on your finger, let her pull
your finger into her cave. Curl your finger pad inside her yoni toward her
navel then back toward her inner legs, so it rests gently against her
sacred sector. Breathe together and keep your hand still for ten deep
breaths while you imagine that your finger lovingly reaches inside her to
Begin a light "come here" motion with your
ring finger; let the pad of your finger caress the tissue that covers the sacred
sector. Slowly and softly trace, in thirty to forty strokes, the inner surface
of the top and upper front of her cave from cervix toward the top of her caves
Then, for forty strokes or so, turn your wrist from side to
side. Trace a crescent over the sacred sector with your finger pad.
Sweep (turn your wrist from up to
down) the left half of her cave. Slowly skim the front of your right ring finger
from the cave roof to its floor and outside door. Remove your right ring finger
and insert your left ring finger inside her yoni. With your left ring finger,
stroke the right half of the yoni roof.
After a few minutes, change your position
to ease your back and neck. Withdraw your left ring finger from her cave, and
put your right ring finger back in. Rub, tap, and touch all over inside
her cave. Stroke different levels of pressure, depths, speeds and
rhythms. Trace the throbbing veins and, deeper, arteries. Press gently to
the bone in each part of her cave.
After fifteen minutes, say, "Would you
like me to pet you with two fingers inside?" If she consents, curl
the underside of your right middle and ring fingers together along the roof-beam
of her yoni. Move your finger and down the transom over the door and out the
yoni, with a "come here" motion.
Then focus your fingers inside her on her sacred sector.
You can feel it through the inner vaginal wall, between the wall
and the pubic bone, above the orifice. The sacred sector may feel
like a bean-sized lump that may grow to silver-dollar size as you
stroke it. Or there may be no distinctive lump of tissue, just a
generalized sensual area around the urethral sponge. Initially,
when her sacred sectors stimulated, she may think--though shes
just emptied her bladdershe needs to urinate. Let her try to do
so until no urine comes out.
Unite your fingers through her lower abdomen. Press your left
hand down on her lower belly just above the pubic bone. Feel her
sacred sector swell between these fingers on her abdomen and those
in her vagina.
Move your head from side to side; alternate
stretching out on your belly with drawing your knees under you to prevent back
and neck pain. Either pain can distract you from your role as Giver.
Your Receiver may enjoy all the touching. Some Receivers feel indifferent to
sacred sector massage at first. Most women, however, savor some sacred sector
stroking. Remember your Receivers pleasure points.