A Receiver may block pleasure, orgasm and
ejaculation. If she tenses, numbs or burns at your touch, encourage her to free
associate, to remember touch, sex and times that traumatized or closed her down
emotionally and sexually. She may have past life memories or fantasies. She may
yell, cry, laugh or make strange sounds.
Tell her, "Let your feelings out,
Hold her while she screams, sobs and says
what she needs to say to each person she thinks hurt or neglected her.
If shes angry at you, say, "Say it
louder. Let me know how mad I make you." Stay centered.
Ask her to fantasize and roleplay redoing
the painful, humiliating or inappropriate scenes that traumatized her; keep your
fingers lightly on the area that stimulated her catharsis. Enact the part of her
father, mother or boyfriend the way she wished they were in the scene she
When she relaxes again, move your fingers
to and from the area that stimulated the painful memories and an area that felt
good when touched. Let your fingers stimulate these two areas till she says she
enjoys touch both places.
When she recognizes, releases and creates
alternative outcomes paired with pleasure, shell likely orgasm (spasmodically
contract her vagina). She may simultaneously ejaculate--dribble or squirt (a few
cubic centimeters to several ounces) amrita, divine nectar clear or
slightly milky, sweet- tasting, alkaline fluid from her urethra.
Breathe with her; stroke her, make sounds
with her. When says she feels like shes about to ejaculate, say, "Push
out on your uterus, like youre delivering a baby."
Dont pressure her to ejaculate. Itll
happen when shes ready--if not this date, then on subsequent dates in the
weeks or months to follow.
When she does ejaculate, tell her,
"Youre beautiful," "I love you," "Youre coming
into your power," and other affirmations. These affirmations imprint
powerfully as she ejaculates.
Gather some of her amrita on your left
hand. Taste it. Say, "Yum." Dab some on her lips so she can taste how
sweet it is. Keep your right hand in her yoni. Hold her close.
After several minutes, with added
lubricant, very carefully (to prevent tearing the now-desiccated tissue),
withdraw your fingers. But keep your hand on her yoni, outside. Lie next to her
and hold her tight.
Make no demands, (explicit or implicit)
upon her to satisfy you sexually. On this date, shes the Receiver. If she
wants other sexual experiences with you and youre amenable, give them; but
let her initiate.