If you're the female
Teacher, lie on your side, back or atop your Learner, facing
the Learner's genitals. (The painting, entitled The
Inverted Crow, shown above, is too demanding a form of 69 for
Tell your Learner that you
want him or her to do to your genitals exactly what you do to his
If your Learner's male,
tell him, "Use your lips, mouth, tongue and fingers on my
pearl (clitoris) exactly as I touch your lingam (penis) with my
lips, mouth, tongue and fingers. Stroke and kiss my yoni
lips (labia) as I stroke and kiss your jewel sack (scrotum).
I'll also make sounds and tell you, 'softer, slower, do the left
side more, and so forth, so you learn how to pleasure me through
the stages of my pleasure."
If your Learner's female, tell her,
"Use your lips, mouth, tongue and fingers on my pearl,
clitoral drapes, and the entrance to my love-cave exactly as I use
my lips, mouth, tongue and fingers on yours."
After 30 minutes or more, reverse roles. Touch, kiss, You do to her clitoris what you'd like her to do with yours.
- Richard Stodart