Tantra Techniques for Chakra 2, 
the Genital Chakra
 
concerned with SEX, SENSUALITY, REPRODUCTION

Part 2:
Male Receives: Sexual Massage and Healing

Look at His Love Life
Sasha Lessin, Ph.D.
Excerpted from Delighting Dionysus: How to Really Love a Man by Sasha Lessin, Ph.D.

  Honor a man: hear the history of his love life.  Tell him 
you'd like to give him quality listening.  Offer to take him through the personal growth exercise below.  The purpose: discovering his hidden truths as they unfold.

Rubaiyat of Omar Khayaam - worldarterotica.com

Giver, read bold cues aloud. Silently follow directions in square [ ] brackets. When you read out loud, emphasize italicized words. When you see ***, it's Receiver's cue to respond aloud.

    Lie on your back. Relax. [Give him time] Put my left hand on your heart, my right on your lingum (penis) and jewels (testicles) and put your hands atop mine. Close your eyes. [Take three deep breaths, imagine sending energy into his heart through your right hand, receiving it through your left.] Ok, let's gently release our hands; lower them.  Feel your genitals--your sexual chakra; notice your heart, your love chakra.

     Reconsider your lovers from days gone. Tell me their names, I'll write them. ***

     Lover 1
[Write it]

     Lover 2

3. Etc.

     For each lover on this list,
a) Tell me the YEARS you were involved and how old you were, *** [Write them next to the name indicated]

b) Say WHERE you were when you related to her, the key EVENTS in your relationship *** [Take notes next to the name indicated]

c) Tell me your EMOTIONAL AND SEXUAL SHARING with each. ***

d) Tell the DEVELOPMENTAL TASKS YOU COMPLETED with each.

e) Summarize the events, sexual and emotional sharing and the developmental tasks we've experienced together. ***
f ) Imagine Lover 1 [Say her name] is before you. Toward her, express your LONGINGS, what you wished you could have shared with her ***

g) Express toward her any WITHHELD FEELINGS, things you didn't get to say fully ***

h) Tell her your RESENTMENTS ***

i) As you imagine her before you, tell her your DEMANDS, what you really wanted from her ***

j) Say, to her, your APPRECIATIONS ***

k) l her what you REGRET. Tell her what you FORGIVE her for ***

l) Tell [Lover 1  [Say her name] WHAT YOU LEARNED from being together. ***

m) FORGIVE YOURSELF aloud for not doing better. ***

n) Bid her FAREWELL. ***

o) How, if you had it to do over, would you DO BETTER in the relationship with 
[Lover 1
[Say her name]? ***

p) How can you apply that improvement to your relationship with me? ***
Imagine
[Lover 2: Say her name] is before you. Toward her, express your LONGINGS, what you wished you could have shared with her ***

     Express toward [Lover 2] any WITHHELD FEELINGS, things you didn't get to say fully ***

     Tell her your RESENTMENTS ***

     As you imagine her before you, tell her your DEMANDS, what you really wanted from her ***

     Say, to her, your APPRECIATIONS ***

     Tell her what you REGRET. Tell her what you FORGIVE her for ***

     Tell
[Lover 2: Say her name] WHAT YOU LEARNED from being together. ***

     FORGIVE YOURSELF aloud for not doing better. ***

     Bid her FAREWELL. ***

    How, if you had it to do over, would you DO BETTER in the relationship with [Lover 2: Say her name]? ***

How can you apply that improvement to your relationship with me? ***

[Read Cues a) - n) for each lover on your Receiver's list; take notes after each lover's name.]


Male Receives: Sexual Massage and Healing (excerpted from Delight Dionysus: How to Really Love a Man by Sasha Lessin, Ph.D.)  
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