Techniques for Chakra
the Genital Chakra concerned with SEX, SENSUALITY, REPRODUCTION
3: Male Receives:
Sexual Massage and Healing
SAMPSON'S SQUIRT: EXERCISE EJACULATORY CONTROL
Sasha Lessin, Ph.D.
(excerpted from Delight Dionysus: How to
Really Love a Man by Sasha Lessin,
Men, to keep your utmost
attention and sexual interest on your partner longer; avoid
ejaculation. Dont squirt from your lingam (penis) until you're
ready to reduce your sexual excitation.
You might, if youre older
than 30, want to avoid ejaculating even longer--for a week or
But dont avoid
intercourse. On the contrary, enjoy intercourse at least once a
day, as part of at least one of your two daily tantric connects.
Tune into your body
responses. Identify your sensations the moment before your moment
of ejaculatory inevitability--the internal feedback you experience
just before your seminal vesicles and prostrate empty.* When you
feel the sensations that indicate ejaculation is imminent, stop
vigorous pelvic thrusting. Hold your partner still too. Shift your
attention to your gaze into your partners eyes, your hands and
mouth (stroke, lick or kiss some very erogenous part of your
partner), your voice (say something loving) or your breath.
Breathe deeply. After you
inhale, move your chin back toward your throat, but keep your neck
straight and long (throat hold). Then exhale. While empty of air,
pull your belly in and up toward your throat (belly hold). Tighten
your base and pubococcygeal musclespretend youre squeezing
to stop urinating or prevent vacating your bowels (pelvis hold).
Imagine pulling energy up from your base and genitals, up through
your spine, out the top of your head and into your partners
crown (instead of out your lingam as ejaculate). When you inhale,
imagine youre pulling energy into your genitals from you
partners. Imagine you and your partner are a single energy
system, circulating love and energy.
* Avoid last-second ejaculatory blocking
techniques such as squeezing the head of the lingum or pushing the
external perineum into the ejaculatory duct, thus blocking it.
Such mechanical interference with fluid being pushed out yet
prevented from exit may damage the duct.
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