To take Delight Dionysus, a level 2 class, a man or
woman must have successfully completed Adore Aphrodite,
the level 1 class where one person, the Devotee, learns
to be there totally without thought of reward and help a
goddess release. In Adore Aphrodite, the
goddess emotes, frees her amrita, reconnects with her
body. She feels loved, heard, understood and full. She has bared her
soul, been completely open and vulnerable.
Delight Dionysus prepares a woman
to be the Nurturer for a man. Learn how to be there for
him. Delight Dionysus,
be ready to
honor your devoted knight. Maybe another School of Tantra
student is here to assist you and allow you to be here for him.
He channels god energy
and you respond. The Divine Female within you awakens. You're ready to morph
mortal to God.
Lessin, Ph.D. and Janet Kira Lessin--a loving, committed,
devoted pair--guide and explicitly
demonstrate and coach Nurturers man-pleasuring. Students
practice Delight Dionysus privately or coached by Janet and Sasha.
Preview Dr. Lessin's instructions
CHAKRA VULERABILITY EXPERIENCE FOR A MAN
Men, lie on your back. Now you're the Receiver. Giver, rest
a hand on his heart and dedicate the focus on him to his healing
and the healing of all men. Then let him set his intention in
receiving your love.
Give him a massage. Then lay your hands on and bless each of his
Giver treat the Receiver to the following strokes about five
minutes each. Encourage the Receiver to make sounds, give verbal
feedback and pulse his anal sphincter whenever he feels
along his wand with your hand or thumb and index finger.
Scratch wand lightly. Pat and slap it lightly. Throw it
from one of his thighs to the other and from one of your
hands to the other.
the tip of his wand toward his navel, hold the base in
one hand and, with the heel of your other hand, press
wand from tip to base, them from base to tip. Slide
your hands and pull the wand; vary strokes from hard to
your hands. Hold the base of his wand with one hand and
twist the other around the wand in a corkscrew motion.
his wand toward his navel and alternate pressing the tip
with your thumbs. Trace circles on the tip and each part
of the shaft.
wand toward his feet and caress it from tip to
the wand between your hands. Tickle and scratch his
jewels. Lightly hold each testicle separately.
The Receiver should exercise ejaculatory control while hes the
focus and throughout the rest of the ceremony, until the final
To avoid squirting before youre ready, Receiver, identify your
sensations the moment before ejaculatory inevitabilityyour
sensations just before your seminal vesicles and prostrate empty.
When you feel ejaculations imminent, avoid pelvic thrusting.
Shift your attention to the Giver's eyes and breathe deeply.
After inhale, move your chin back toward your throat, keeping your
neck straight and long. Then exhale. While empty of air, pull your
belly in and up toward your throat). Tighten your anal sphincter
and pubococcygeal musclespretend youre stopping urination or
preventing vacating your bowels. Imagine pulling energy up from
your rosebud and genitals, up through your spine, out the top of
your head and into the Giver's crown (instead of out your wand
as ejaculate). When you inhale, imagine youre pulling energy
into your genitals from the Giver. Imagine you and they circulate
Breathe together. Adore
the Receiver with your eyes while you hold his wand. Caress his
wand, jewel sack, jewels and perineum with your fingers, hands,
breasts, lips, tongue, genitals and other part's he might find
pleasurable or interesting. Touch, hold, then massage each inch of
his perineum and rosebud (the entrance to his cave).
Receiver says what he feels, remembers and imagines as a Giver
holds his wand in one hand and, with the ring finger of the other
hand, traces the door to his cave. If the Receivers tense but
wants to continue, Giver tells him to control the pace, pressure
and depth of digital penetration by pressing his cave onto the
When the finger first enters the Receivers rosebud, Giver and
Receiver remain motionless for a few minutes. Maintain eye contact
and breathe together. Encourage the Receiver to emote, giggle and
make sounds. Make sounds with the Receiver.
Giver sends love to the Receiver though the finger in the Receivers
cave and through the hand or mouth on the Receivers wand.
Then Giver begins a gentle, "come-here" motion with the
ring finger. Fondle the front inner wall of his cave, pulling
gently from the pubic bone toward the jewels. Move your finger
like a windshield wiper over the front wall of his cave. Trace
circles and figure-eights on the wall. Alternate speed, depth and
pressure of your stroke. See, in his eyes, the effects of your
touches. Say, "Tell me if any place I touch inside you feels
pleasurable, hurts, burns or feels numb." Remember the spots
he finds pleasurable.
If you notice a
painful, numb or burning spot, ask the Receiver to close his eyes
and notice his fantasies, memories and associations. Encourage him
to express his emotions as he shares. Ask him how he'd re-do the
scenes he associates with his pain.
When Caroline, my
Giver, massaged my cave three months after Joan, my wife of twenty
years abruptly left me for a younger man, I was able to release
all the tears Id held in.
"If youd lived the way you preferred, how would your life
have been different? How would you be now?"
move your finger back and forth from the spot that had the painful
association and a pleasurable internal spot, till he reports both
spots feel good. Tell him to remember, in situations that remind
him of his painful imprints, that he could live from his re-done
scene, with it's growth pattern, rather than the self-limiting
program associated with the story he recalled. He has, remind him,